CindyLou
Get over it
- MBTI
- INFJ
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- 6w5
Im upset.
I'm pacing
Im upset.
that's the price of beauty. I do the same things.I am naturally wary of large dogs. I don't leave a large dog alone with my toddler.
Carry something with you when you walk or something that makes you feel more protected. Learn to defend yourself, examine your fears, and face them with courage.
Welcome to the world of being a woman; we are constantly looking over our shoulders at night, parking in well lit areas, and carrying mace as I'm generally physically much weaker than half of the population. Dogs are the least of my problemz.
that's the price of beauty. I do the same things.
I didn't understand the violent remarks toward me, or the INFP who said he would kill me if I didn't completely love his dogs. That just struck me as really crazy and quite illegal. You can't just beat someone up because they're scared of your dog.
With the exception of the INTP and the INFP's responses, which seemed ballistic, and not exactly fully rational, I liked the more or less carefully nuanced answers to my problemz as set forth. I admit I upped the ante rather high with the dog-o-cidal rhetoric but also thought I made it clear that I wouldn't harm a dog. Some part of me would like to round up the dogs, but in general, I am not that dogged. I can live my life away from dogs. Most in this neighborhood live inside of electric fences. They come running at me (I love to walk and like to walk several hours a day) but are brought up short at the boundary. One stupid dog at the bottom of the hill used to come flying at me and my kids, and that particular dog bit the mailman once a week (or so he said). I would have liked to be a mailman if it weren't for dogs. I got enough from my stint as a newspaper boy. I suppose that rapists give males a bad name, and the small percentage of dogs that bite also give all dogs a bad name. But there are 600,000 dog bites per year in the USA alone, and these are just the bites that need medical attention and so are recorded. Some children are permanently disfigured. I did stop delivering to the house with a German shepherd. I called that family and said I would hurl their paper into their yard wrapped in plastic. I know the dog couldn't help it, because it was basically a territorial being. after I called them the family kept their dog on a tether which meant the poor thing nearly choked itself trying to get at me. I felt so bad for it, I tried to throw the paper all the way to their porch and run before the dog could get going with its fascination. After a few weeks I noticed the dog had disappeared. Maybe they gave it away. It was waking the whole neighborhood up for hours on end whenever I went by. I couldn't change the situation, I was only doing my job. I was nine years old, and wasn't much of an animal hater. I shot a bird once with a BB gun and cried for two weeks when it dropped from its perch. I don't know what to do about dogs. Initially I just wanted to see if others felt as I do. I guess not. Enjoy your dogs, people! I won't be rounding them up or absconding with them or throwing them poisoned hamburger. I will turn the other cheek. Peace! (The worst dogs were not the German shepherds but tiny little miniature terriers. They simply had no brakes or so it seemed. Their owners were really nice people, too, who saved their stamps for my collection.)
I wouldn't be bringing rationality into this with the cards that you have been playing so far.
It isn't very rational to put words in other peoples mouths and assume overly exaggerated meanings based on words that they didn't even say/type, but that hasn't stopped you.
I'd go as far as to say the entire premise for this thread isn't in any way rational either.
It's understandable to be afraid of something that you had a bad experience with.
But people tend to get defensive when you wish nazi death camps on the beings that they love lol.
I hope you learn to conquer your fear.