You may have found your religion on your own, and I applaud you for that. I believe people should find something to believe in on their own. However, you will find that while you may not have been forced into religion at a young age quite a few people were. I am not arguing that the government should have any say in what parents decide to teach their children, or how they raise them. I just wish people would see that planning a child's religion falls along the same lines as planning their career. I was raised in a very devout family and I was forced the memorize bible verses and hymns until eventually I could spit back any information you wanted. I was a good christian child, until I began to ask questions. No that was not allowed. You believed what you were told and that was that. Blind faith was what the expected from me and for years I gave it to them and now that I don't I am a disappointment because I didn't follow the path they set for me. It reminds me of when a child tells her overbearing mother that she's not applying to the college "they" decided on. The mother freaks out because the child is straying from the plan they had set and the child feels like she has let her mother down. She becomes the black sheep because she formed her own opinions and grew into her own person. I view it as living vicariously through your child.
Foolish and ignorant, though I don't mean to insult. That is what your view is. First off let's make the first connection Dawkins makes, that the damage done by a child molester is less then that of a parent who raises a child in a christian house. If you can not see the total absurdity in this then you must physically and mentally blind.
Second, the term indoctrination has been falsely and foolishly used. Raising a child with to have the same values you have is not indoctrination, by this standard you would have to raise your child without having any world view or religious claims. That would include the gambit not just Christianity or Islam, you would have to throw atheism, agnosticism, Buddhism, paganism, socialism, capitalism(in the theological contexts of course) and just about anything used to teach morals and values(or maybe in this case morals and values). Because if not then your "indoctrinating" into your beliefs, surely you can see the ridiculousness in this.
Also, the women whom was molested by a clergy member, she feels worse about her friend being told she has gone to hell for being a protestant. Good Lord, why would you accept religious doctrine of any sort from a child molester, how could you hope to treat that as true. Not to say that her feeling aren't valid or that it wasn't terrible experience however,It's not common and it's not accurate of how a normal church works or the common upbringing of a child in the faith.
And as I mentioned in my last post, they completely(most likely intentionally) screwed up on their discription of how a christian family would raise their child. If you agree with these articles in any way, shape or form, you are for all purposes a fool.
Finally, could you possibly understand why your parents are upset, even a little. Think of it like this, you've told them that you have every intention of committing suicide, and there is no way they can convince you otherwise. Don't you get it, to the Christian this isn't just about how you live your life. It's a matter of life and death, and what parent in their right mind would not be disheartened by the fact that they can't save their child. Their not trying to live through you, their trying to help you live.
I hate this thread, and all of the ignorance in it.
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also, this isn't news. it's philosophy and should probably be moved to the appropriate section.