Some people have mentioned having crushes that evolve into friendships. I've never had this happen. In fact, I'm the opposite. I've had friends that I eventually realized that I had a crush on them. Most of my life though, I've had a weird relationship with romantic attraction of any kind. I always want to make sure the "crush" or whatever it actually is, makes since in the long-term. If I can't seem to find a logical "fit" with this person, I'm very good at killing the emotions. That said, when I do have a crush I'm extremely good at hiding it. This became a highly valuable asset to me as a teenager since I never found someone that I was attracted to that was also attracted to me until I was alost 18. However, because of this, I don't allow myself to crush often, but when I do, I crush for a long time. But once I figure out that even if the other person were attracted to me that it still doesn't make since logically, I do everything I can to cut ties with my feelings. For example, I attempted to do this with my INTP. I'll call him "M" for the sake of the post. "M" and I were friends for about 6 months when I finally allowed myself to secretly admit that I had a crush on him. However, I am leaving for grad school next year, so for me it didn't make since for me to get entangled in a relationship that may pressure me to limit my applications based on geographic locations. Therefore, I tried very hard to cut ties with my feelings, and I succeeded...for a little while. But then something strange happened - they came back. But I eventually figured out what some of his signals were that he was interested in me (he is very subtle, and I am romantically retarded, go figure), and th story goes on from there, but I won't go into detail about the space inbetween. But now I'm in a fantastic relationship with someone that job onky supports my goals, but together we have come up with an idea that might make them better while coinciding with his goals.