Solstice
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- MBTI
- INFJ
I think it's just from the go with the flow/conformist mentality that most people have. If you want to bring MBTI into it (since this is an MBTI forum), Sensors make up the majority of the population who are stereotypically conformists, especially SJs. Of course, I know you label yourself a Sensor, Slant, and I don't see you as a conformist. It would seem counter-productive to replace society's stereotypes with MBTI stereotypes but if I had to choose I would definately prefer the MBTI ones. People can choose what MBTI type they feel represents them the best, or they can choose not to pick one. However male and female stereotypes are forced upon people at birth. No one ever asked me, "Would you rather be represented by the male or female stereotype?" It was picked for me. At least I got to pick that I'm an INFJ, even if everything doesn't fit me, because almost every description fits me. The male stereotype that society picked for me barely fits. Plus 16 choices definately beats 2.Hahaha.
People keep mistaking me as male
Gender roles are pretty screwed up online.
Last night I watched this movie I hadn't seen for a long time "What Dreams May Come" and a quote struck me as needing to be added to this discussion.
"The old baggage, old roles of authority, who's the teacher, who's the father, gets in the way of who we really are to each other."
What do you people think of that? Are gender roles liable to skewer a person's perception of the actual person, or are things like gender part of a person's identity? I had this discussion with my cousin, and we went on to mention that he believes that no one has a set identity. For example, he could easily change his gender. So if gender and such things aren't set in stone, than what do gender roles really have to do with anything?