Skarekrow
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I agree with you…I just wanted to see what other people thought.There are a myriad of reasons people commit suicide. For instance take the woman with Cotard Delusion, if she had killed herself it wouldn't be because she wasn't strong enough to live, but because she couldn't see any difference between life and death. Apathy and depression are extremely hard to fight against, it's like bashing your head against a wall of blubber. There's no give and after a while death seems like the only real option.
I came across an account of a couple that murdered their children and then committed suicide. They left behind a note which explained, very rationally and calmly, why they did this. They were financially ruined and headed to prison due to outstanding debts. Their children would likely face life on the street (this was in the 19th century where there were few options for orphaned children) and either succumb to illness or worse. So they made the most logical choice they could.
I once believed that people who commit suicide are weak and selfish, but I've come to realize that it's rarely so simple.
Edit:
Just realized I didn't answer your question, but rambled on. Suicide would be extremely difficult if you like being alive and have only minor psychological problems. Otherwise, I don't believe it's about strength or weakness.
I know personally what it’s like to face oblivion…to think you might just blink out and cease to be…or worse, that you DO in fact get punished for all eternity for cutting your wrists…your only hope that whatever God is up there has pity and mercy on you. To face those possibilities and to still choose to go through with it because you are in so much mental, psychological, and emotional turmoil is very familiar to me.
I will never call someone who killed themselves weak…because doing so goes against the very core fiber of a person.
An interesting thought though…I have been studying NDEs as of late…listing to quite a few accounts of what transpired…anyhow, not all NDEs are pleasant for the person.
They broke it down…the first was the void.
Just about everyone who has an NDE goes into the void…there is nothing…only your consciousness…it can be quite frightening for some…some actually come to believe that their whole existence, their life, themselves, everything, is a great big lie….can you imagine how devastating that is for someone?
The second was where they fight against what is happening, and the moment they give in it becomes a positive experience.
The third was your classical view of “Hell” (but note, most were unaffected themselves)
The last and least likely is a negative judgmental scenario.
Suicides were the group that had the most of the negative type scenarios…but most of them still had positive experiences.
I’m sure there is no good answer looking there, but I found it interesting nonetheless
Perhaps they were shown what they needed to see at that time in their lives?
Anyhow…way off topic….sorry.