I'm beginning to find this a bit funny :B It seems like a clash between Fi defensiveness and Fe stubbornness, if I was going to boil it down to functions. I say we have a picnic!
I have noticed a trend with people that generally the person being attacked gets defensive, and then the attacker gets stubborn. Result: no one listens.
I'm down for the picnic. I'll provide the musical entertainment
Yes. All problems are solved over food. It's a fact of life.