Not bad.
Im not sure you can say that all people want to control out of fear. I myself believe control is necessary in certain circumstances but not out of fear. The person coming at my family with a knife, with a gun..a bomb etc... So if I have one arm of an institution that I believe can take care of these things and my alternative is something that will take care of them to a lesser degree or not at all...if these are my choices. .. what do you believe I will pick?
I dont understand what you are saying or what your question is. Could you please elaborate?
Wanting to control people and the environment through the application of totalitarian and fascist ideology is not the same as wanting to contol the water temperature in the shower, or the heat on the stove, or wanting to choose what you have for dinner, or what movie you will watch, or what videogame you will buy.
Is that what you were getting at?
There is a need to control that stems directly from fear, and this involves trying to gain a sense of power through disempowering or eliminating the 'other' or the object of fear. In a social context this requires some form of fascism, totalitarianism, dictatorship, martial rule, censorship
This can be contrasted with being deliberate, focused, and intentional....exercising you personal power and agency to make choices in order to actively create situations, environments and interactions that are meaningful, beneficial, and pleasing to you. This does not require the desire to disempower anyone else, or to undemocratically enforce an environment or situation on people. In a social context, this requires democracy, social and economic mobility, freedom of speech and expression, transparent judiciary, accountability
Also there is self control....where the individual takes responsibility for thoughts, emotions, and actions, and is thus empowered through this sense of personal responsibility.
Why do people make the choices that they do? All decisions are powerful, because they are an avowal of what we choose to focus on, what we give attention, energy, time, money, and mindspace to....basically what we want to empower and potentially manifest into physicality. Our choices define what we want in life.
Interestingly....and i ask this not necessarily expecting any answer....potentially a rhetorical question....why do people choose to invent, create, produce, fund, watch, 'play', and buy media that has violence, theft, rape, abuse, and murder? Why is or isn't it 'entertaining'? Why choose that when there are other choices available?