Here is most of a letter I wrote to the elder who gave the sermon today at church...
"I first want to start out by saying this is not an "angry letter" or anything like that. I just wanted to talk about how I see things a little differently from you. I'd be open to talking more about this if you want to do that.
First, I understand the impetus of the message. Your message was about how Christianity is all about peaks and valleys. It is very much a message I agree with. The goal is to be a light to the world. In fact, there is this famous quote attributed to Billy Graham that goes something like, "Mountaintops are for views and inspiration, but fruit is grown in the valley." So, I agree with the overall thrust of what you said.
However, I have some disagreements about how this is done.
I should go to church more. I know that. But that seems to be your mountaintop experience you speak of. I do not feel the same way. Why do I say this? To be perfectly honest with you, going to church feels more like a chore than something that feels like a mountaintop experience. To illustrate this, I keep waiting to see some great work of God in Sunday service. Something truly supernatural; undeniable. But to be honest, it just seems like what happens on Sunday is what would always happen if people did the same exact things, but were not saved. And don't get me wrong, community is very important, even though it is definitely a weakness for me. But, I am just not really sensing the power of the Holy Spirit on Sunday as much as I feel it in my Monday through Saturday.
And that brings me to this second point. It seems like you seemed to be talking about all the things we have to DO in order to be a strong Christian. I agree in part. The Bible is replete with examples of how we ought to behave as the people of God. But then there are other times, where it's not about our righteousness at all, but only because God is faithful to His people. I have experienced quite a few supernatural things since my faith was confirmed--some of them completely undeniable, but all of them, I know God was behind. And further, I have a strong stance that we should not "chase" or even "expect" God to do supernatural things in our lives. In fact, most of our lives should be about what I call "Ordinary Christianity." That's where there are no fireworks, no light shows, no bells and whistles. Just ordinary faithful living. And I think I do a pretty good job of this in my Monday through Saturday. I'm not perfect, obviously, and in some ways I see how much more I could be doing. But, I still do a fair bit of evangelism. I still have people I am discipling. I still have a fair bit of meditating on things above rather than things below. Anyways, my point in all this is that the Christian walk is not about the things you DO. It's the way God has shown us grace. Now, we are all different, and we are all prone to err on either side of the grace vs works dilemma. It's a VERY old debate, going back to at the very least the time of Luther and the Reformation (which I just wanted to point out that Luther and Calvin both believed in baptismal regeneration, but that's a separate topic). To make it really simple, Christianity is not about what we do; it's about what Jesus did. People are not "more saved" because they do the things they are supposed to, and "less saved" when they are people who screw up. In fact, there are plenty of examples in the Bible where God used some pretty rotten individuals to do His will, just because God is God and we are not.
In any case, I hope you do not take this email as antagonistic or anything. That is not my purpose in this. Just trying to give my perspective."