Actually it’s quite proven.
And we do observe the bending of space and time...it was proven by a solar eclipse, where the star behind the sun was visible to those on Earth even though it would normally be obscured...but such is the gravity of the sun that it bent space/time.
Google it...basic stuff.
Not at all in the realm of pure theory.
Take a look at the large hadron collider...it’s thoroughly gone from the world of theory into being able to prove the existence of things like the Higgs-Boson particle...which is a bit reductionist in their methodology, but they have gotten significant results.
As far as something existing as both a particle and a wave, again has been proven.
"A central concept of quantum mechanics, duality addresses the inadequacy of conventional concepts like "particle" and "wave" to meaningfully describe the behaviour of quantum objects.
The idea of duality is rooted in a debate over the nature of light and matter dating back to the 1600s, when competing theories of light were proposed by Christiaan Huygens and Isaac Newton.
Through the work of Albert Einstein, Louis de Broglie and many others, it is now established that all objects have both wave and particle nature (though this phenomenon is only detectable on small scales, such as with atoms), and that a suitable interpretation of quantum mechanics provides the over-arching theory resolving this ostensible paradox.”
We now have quantum radar...something that Chinese are supposedly way ahead of us on....this uses the same concept of wave particle duality (entangled particle superposition), hell man...I can find you the link, but a Japanese lab even have an electron microscope picture of such a thing...speaking of which, it is through wave particle duality that electron microscopes even function.
The question is not if duality exists, but rather how much influence we (our consciousness) have on such particles and are we entangled with other particles of matter around us (providing a possible working model of how we could influence something separate from our physical self)?
Because we at all times have particles passing through our bodies and brain...through the spaces in-between, perhaps there is some transfer of information back and forth as time on such a minute scale would seem reasonably slow enough for such a thing to occur and entanglements to be made?
I am reminded of “the ego-centric predicament”
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Egocentric_predicament
Is that kind of what you are leaning toward?
There is some truth in that viewpoint, but I don’t adhere to it all in it’s entirety.
I’m still trying to understand your POV, forgive all the questions.
Don’t feel I am attacking you or anything please.
So clear things up for me...would you consider yourself an Epiphenomenalist, an Interactionist, or a Substantialist?
Also, I have quite a few links showing how human consciousness interacts with reality, which is leaning toward my own definition of “faith”.
If you like, we can go through some of them and you can explain why they are wrong?