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This describes me *exactly.* Perhaps it's low self confidence, and when I see someone else in need I feel like I have the ability to help them and therefore I no longer feel like I'm not "good enough." I mean, I don't know. Two of my good friends weren't like that..although they were kinda loners when I met them, and maybe that's also why I felt a little more comfortable with talking to them. I think that when there's someone who seems to have their shiz all together and needs no help, I feel like...I don't know, I almost kind of want them to have a problem that I can help them with because that's one of the things that "sells me" or "appeals me" to others- my ability to be a true, loyal friend who will help them. So I guess when someone doesn't give me an opportunity to showcase that part of my presonality which I think is really important, I feel pissed off, and I wish something bad would happen to them...LOL. I know exactly what you're talking about though. Most of my online friends had some sort of depression..and I also feel like if I can "fix" them then they'll really be appreciative and it'll be a deep experience and we can be close friends. This actually makes me seem kinda like a bad person, but meh x:. I'm sure a lot of happy, extroverted people who have no probs they need help with are very nice people, but...
 
Shai Gar said:
chicken and avacado on wholemeal multigrain
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Nicola Jane said:
Dyu want a virtual sandwich from England to Oz?
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Mmm, I wish.:m153:
 
Salt, pepper, mayo and this weird season-all thing we have here called aromat. Tasty anyway. But now its way past food time, it's nearly bedtime! I think I would be naked a lot more if I didn't live with my parents. And also do you have to pull all the curtains? That's a pfaff...
 
Okay this thread hilariously derailed but I'd like to add that, I don't feel any one needs me. Which is a bit shit.
 
Yield said:
Okay this thread hilariously derailed but I'd like to add that, I don't feel any one needs me. Which is a bit shit.
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Well I don't feel like anyone needs me in the friend sense! Which i sometimes ponder on, I don't let myself get too close to them... But I mean don't you find it easier to approach someone, or to get to know them, if you feel like you can help them in some way? Whether to socialise, to give advice, to help or any of that?
 
Nicola Jane said:
Well I don't feel like anyone needs me in the friend sense! Which i sometimes ponder on, I don't let myself get too close to them... But I mean don't you find it easier to approach someone, or to get to know them, if you feel like you can help them in some way? Whether to socialise, to give advice, to help or any of that?
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Yeah I do. That way I've got an angle, if you know what I mean? If they're hurting or need help you know where to go from. Plus, you learn a lot more about them through that process, which appeals to me greatly. That's how I've made all my best friends. But that's not a high number so I wouldn't put all my chips on just going for people who need help.
 
Nicola Jane said:
Salt, pepper, mayo and this weird season-all thing we have here called aromat. Tasty anyway. But now its way past food time, it's nearly bedtime! I think I would be naked a lot more if I didn't live with my parents. And also do you have to pull all the curtains? That's a pfaff...
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I leave the curtains opened at all times... if people want to look at a naked me, fine.
 
Actually, I was wondering if we could discuss the actual original topic because this topic really interests me and I've been thinking about it a lot.

Although by all means, please do continue to carry out your sandwich fantasy rp...
 
How we find it much easier to approach someone or socialize with someone when they're in "need" or smth, usually emotionally...or with something else o.O but usually psychologically
 
I'm also going to make a smoothie. Maybe some brownies later...

BUAHAHAHAHAAAAA.

Well what do I get in exchange for making you a sammich :3?
 
Cuddling with the devil? o.O

You know what's really annoying about making sandwiches- when the ingredients keep slipping out -_-
 
Not sure what is going on in this thread anymore, but I know that I have always had this need to help women to whom I have been attracted. I get to be their good friends, and wind up helping them with their romantic lives with somebody else, never once taking the initiative of saying, 'gee you have a real problem here, what about looking for somebody else, like me?'
 
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