I have clearly led a sheltered life.. I am ok with that, as there can be 'emtional consequences'.
A few minutes ago, I was happily watching The Big Lebowski, but now ? Now my ex has returned from lunch with her parents, and the gloom descends once more. She came in, saw I watching a movie, and is now 'loudly' hoovering the house (it's a Dyson and sounds like a small aeroplane taking off). This is revenge for me closing the door earlier and not offerring to go along with her.
Since my former 'sex life' lead to this debacle, I am going to more selective in future.