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Thanks!Wow! Good on you for taking control of the situation - especially in a non-violent way!! You're lucky that you have the skills to be able to think ahead and recognize bad situations and prepare. I can't believe you hitch-hike! To me- that's so dangerous! It's funny because my mom did it across Canada when she was in her early 20's ...but now she would die if I ever did it (she's instilled fear in me about it). Do you find people pick you up regularly??
Looking back on the situation, that guy wasn't very sophisticated... It is entirely possible the murders that happened the previous week spurred something in him. That very well could have been his first "foray". I hope his experience made it his last.
More accurate to say I have hitch-hiked. I was a adventure trekker for a decade, living much like the guy in "Into the Wild" -no weird berries. [living out in the woods for so long still affects my bodies rhythms. I'm such a morning person... I stayed up late last night, 1:30, and here I am, predawn, no alarm, wide awake and full of energy.] Most the time I traveled under my own power but ya, I did have plenty opportunity to hitch-hike while trying to get to new areas. Most of my hitch hiking experience was pre 9/11 anyway, slightly different environment now. I would always put a sign on my pack (East! -or something) then just sit read, glancing up with a smile on occasion. Holding my thumb out seemed too much like begging for my taste. My interest was clear, let them come to me. I guess I've been rather successful with hitching in general. I've heard stories about hitch hikers being in the same place for days. I've had to wait again for daylight a couple times but it seems like I was never in one spot for more than a few daylight hours. I've been picked up by tiny little unassuming women before. I was honestly a little shocked by those times. I mean, I know I'm one of the good guys but you don't know that! My most recent hitch hike was to the headwaters of the Mississippi River, to kayak down that. One of the guys who gave me a ride took me to his place to meet his family, friends, grab a shower, drink beer, and hang out for a few days. A couple days later I got a ride from a guy who still texts me every now and then to see what grand scheme I'm up to now. When I was finished kayaking that season I looked into Craigslist for ride-shares. It turns out you can even hitch-hike with a 17' sea kayak! =)