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there's a high level of theater and a perhaps a low level of authenticity.
And she is an Internet personality. Her tone and cadence reminds me of Rush Limbaugh.
there's a high level of theater and a perhaps a low level of authenticity.
Honestly, what the fuck do you mean by "cool for a black guy"?
Did that line get you upset?
If you are white (or @ruji can comment too because he is cool for a black guy) and you use the term "white people" in a negative sense, what do you mean by it? Who specifically are you speaking about?
I don't think @the has a problem with white people criticizing white people. Or with criticism of white people in general. It's more I think that this woman's tone is kind of self-conscious and hysterical. People are desperate to make 100% sure that other people don't think they are racist, misogynist homophobes, which is fine. Except that it seems in general, Laci and her ilk are unduly concerned with how they are perceived rather than how they really are. In other words, there's a high level of theater and a perhaps a low level of authenticity. Could be wrong, just my take.
So...there seems to be an implication that, since I'm black but not ruji, I am by default not "a cool guy"? Furthermore...does this also mean that all white guys are by default cool guys?
I guess I just don't see how the thread is meant to assert that white people shouldn't criticize people. It's hard to explain, but there's a feeling in the US right now that can only be described as hysterical. People bandied about the words "racist, sexist, homeophobe, misogynist" so extensively that first folks got worked up into righteous anger, then fear ("what if my friend/coworker/neighbor is a racist?"). Then paranoid ("what if I get called that? What if people think that of me?"). So you could say there's almost Mcarthyesque feeling in the air. The election of Trump was kind of a quiet coup (in the sense that the forces that pushed it flew below the radar and few saw it coming) precisely because of the furor surrounding all the isms. By accident the isms turned into a smoke and mirrors. Being an ist or an obe of any kind is no good obviously. But the accusations have now been thrown about so much, ruining careers and relationships, to such an extent, that when someone comes out now with these kinds of rants, they are often regarded with some combination of humor and suspicion.I think it's entirely plausible that people could be genuinely angry about the result for reasons to do with things other than their ego.
This whole thread is about why white people shouldn't criticise white people. They're too emotional about it... or stuck up about it... or something. Hopefully they will contain their emotions, mortify their personality flaws, and find the right tone of voice to speak about white America so that their concerns can be made heard. I doubt it though.
The reason why people are so angry right now is not because these things are supposed, it's because they're actualised. What happened is not a quiet coup, it's the flowering of a fascist movement. People often mistake fascism for the right or for the left, it's as different from those things as passive-aggressive is from passive or aggressive. It comes about as a response to a particular situation of disenfranchisement, and it represents catastrophe for anyone who is not part of its chosen few. I don't think Trump matters remotely... It's a lot of other things that matter, which all go hand in hand together.
It's okay, white people aren't as cool as me either.So...there seems to be an implication that, since I'm black but not ruji, I am by default not "a cool guy"? Furthermore...does this also mean that all white guys are by default cool guys?
I don't think @the has a problem with white people criticizing white people. Or with criticism of white people in general. It's more I think that this woman's tone is kind of self-conscious and hysterical. People are desperate to make 100% sure that other people don't think they are racist, misogynist homophobes, which is fine. Except that it seems in general, Laci and her ilk are unduly concerned with how they are perceived rather than how they really are. In other words, there's a high level of theater and a perhaps a low level of authenticity. Could be wrong, just my take.
I 'liked' the video 'trumpocalypse'
and then I saw the Jay Smooth video and read the articles @Asa also posted. It just highlighted to me how hard it is for us not in the U.S. to really even begin to understand the race issue as it is unfolding and being experienced in the U.S..
To really understand how serious what is going on really is. After I saw the second video I could see how much more 'real' and visceral the content was coming from the black guy talking about race ...and how slightly inane and ingenious the liberal white girl came across in comparison. It feels like people really living in different realities and experiences which further high-lights the divisions. (I also read the articles). I don't think it means the girl is really disingenuous, it's just that from where she's standing she can't begin to understand the experience of for example Jay Smooth. This is what happens when divisions become so big.
If it's alright me saying, and I can imagine how it some ways it may not be, but this is not a judgement of America, hate can spring up anywhere...it's a process, where if denial is ignored, and injustice unchallenged these things over a period of time cement...
It feels to me that everyone of whatever colour has to get on the same page with this issue...to deal with the fear, pain, denial and embarrassment...to get real! Get real to start to heal! The black lives matter movement and all the stuff that has happened with police brutality etc. it's utterly insane, obviously beyond insane. When insanity gets to the point of being everyday, that's when things are seriously up. You can be exposed to so much madness it hardly registers as much anymore.
Some serious work obviously needs to take place, real talking, real healing.. taking away all the illusion. The terminology is a serious indication of how extremely serious things have got. 'White Supremacy', obviously this is is serious which is beyond serious. I mean a lot of Americans I imagine (A lot), must be deeply concerned but just don't know how to even begin...I'm not saying people aren't caring, it's just obvious that the problem had got so big it's hugely daunting and challenging.
It's obvious that there is a huge amount of fear, division and denial (as I've said, this is coming from someone who doesn't know the issues first hand). But how can fear, hate and division be described in any other way.
I think at this juncture especially with the dawning of Trump, really and truly an movement of solidarity and race equality..as like in the 50's & 60's. something like that needs to happen again. The only question is, would (as I've seen indicated in other threads), this a time of great tension....a revolution of love maybe, rather than protest...I don't know but I think it's true as others have said it's everyone's responsibility.
Forgive me if my whole view on this is somehow wrong, naïve or somehow insensitive. Especially as I'm not there and I can't begin to imagine how it feels to live in such fear and pain.
(Just a bit about my experience vis a vie race/ integration;
I grew up in London and went to a multi-cultural very mixed primary and secondary schools, it was one of the best things about my childhood experiencing so many different races and religions. Many races and religions, different cultures are generally really integrated in London, which is why up to now there has been a lot of integration. Please let it continue...Communities live side by side and go to school together.
I think though bad decision making and bad economics are not good for solidarity and integration, obviously...as we have seen in the UK voting for Brexit, and pointing the finger at 'foreigners' for taking away jobs...when really it had nothing to do with foreigners at all but corrupt bankers etc. e.g. integration and solidarity is quite easy to destroy with divisive politics and bad economics.
The whole banking crisis and terrible economic climate must have stoked up divisions further in the U.S. as all people become afraid when they don't know how they will be able to live and feed themselves.
In my opinion when communities grow apart and there is inequality, this is where division starts. I imagine there are parts of the States that are more integrated and parts that are less integrated- where communities do not mix and are ghettoised? Maybe there are a lot of differences across the U.S. in terms of integration and segregation, so it doesn't make sense to talk in generalities? Anyway these are some of my ideas. Surely there has to be a better tomorrow.