VH
Variable Hybrid
- MBTI
- NFJedi
While the ESFP accusation was clearly a joke, there is a serious merit to it.
According to the concept of shadow functions, we all adopt our opposite personality under the right kinds of stress. This means we can use our shadow mode as an indicator of our type.
Since you are on the fence between INTJ and INFJ, read the descriptions for ESFP and ESTP and consider the filter for being completely stressed. If ESFP is a more accurate description of who you are when you get completely stressed then you are and INTJ. If ESTP is a better description, then you're an INFJ. Many of the things you've described about your F side would imply the former, and that you've had enough time in your stress modes (ISFP for high stress and ESFP for complete stress) to have developed them properly.
According to the concept of shadow functions, we all adopt our opposite personality under the right kinds of stress. This means we can use our shadow mode as an indicator of our type.
Since you are on the fence between INTJ and INFJ, read the descriptions for ESFP and ESTP and consider the filter for being completely stressed. If ESFP is a more accurate description of who you are when you get completely stressed then you are and INTJ. If ESTP is a better description, then you're an INFJ. Many of the things you've described about your F side would imply the former, and that you've had enough time in your stress modes (ISFP for high stress and ESFP for complete stress) to have developed them properly.