What are your turn offs?

apathy

cruelty

insensitivity

lack of care for the little things

unresponsive

coldness

being shut out

snappiness

lack of personal care

unmotivated

afraid of life

cowardly

stupid

shallow

arrogance

imaturity

non-spiritual

users
 
Injustice.
 
wow,I could write a book on my turn offs.


Boringness. I can't stand to be bored. I'm easily amused but quickly bored.

Stupidity: If you're not smarter than me, we're going to have problems. I hate to admit it, but I'd probably leave a guy for not being at least as smart as I think I am.

Unromantic:You can pretty much demand creativity on tap if we're together. i want at least a little of that returned. I am utterly taken by small gestures of concern.

Weakness: Weakness is the surest way to the friend zone. Only the brave and foolish need apply.

Jealousy: Sure its kind of hot, but I'm kind of a flirt so it never works. Plus it insults my loyalty. I may flirt, but I've never cheated on anyone in my life.

Lying: I'm honest as hell for a reason. I don't like liars. Unless they are charming liars and even still I won't take you seriously.


This is just a partial list. I'm picky as hell. Its much easier to turn me off than on.
 
:m082: Me, complaining about my turn-offs.
 
-rudeness
-cruelty
-close mindedness
-extreme fatness
-addictions
-arrogance
-extreme extroversion
-extremely laid back people
-extremely uptight people
-selfishness
-immaturity
hmm pretty much everything 9.9
 
Rudeness
Lack of interests/passion in life
Wrong (as in: rude, or insulting) sense of humor
Arrogance
Addictions (cigarettes, alcohol or drugs)
 
Actually I lied. I am quite aggressive. But only for my values.
 
Arrogance, cruelty, and ignorance. There is a way these three qualities unite into one and feed off of each other. I have sometimes wondered if at their true core they are three manifestations of the same ego-centric blindness.

edit: I don't mean arrogance in terms of confidence or bluntness of communication. I mean actual arrogance based on irrational dismissal of anything that doesn't pump self up onto an imaginary pedestal.
 
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You know what's a fucking turn off? Fake Nails... I would not date a woman based on that single solitary fact. She could be the nicest, most amazing person on the planet, but if she puts those ridiculously retarded things on her fingers I will just say goodfuckingnight.
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excessive aggressiveness
sentimentality or exaggerated sentiment
arrogant detachment
pushiness
excessive compliments (appears insincere) :m145:
lack of respect for personal space
 
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