What do you like to do in the real world?

Yield said:
Okay I've painted a pretty bad picture of myself. I DO like socializing. I DO go out and I DO like meeting new people. In September I WILL meet new people and it'll be awesome. There.
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good may I suggest if you in college a voluntary society, packed full of EN? you'll be in heaven my friend!

Yield your quotes are random and funny, your an honest guy!

I cant explain whay I like IN's I just do, other extraverts well there just too extraverted and into too much club culture for my liking, other ENFP's i know feel the same
 
I wanna do security at uni. But hopefully i'll get paid.

Yield said:
You like INs? Smiffy, If I plonk you in front of this ENFP I like, can you convince her that I'm awesome?
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And this. ^^
 
Words of Irony said:
I'm not talking about online games.

I'm talking about the regular sessions I have with my friends have in my place with Rock Band and Guitar Hero, or the many Xbox Live Arcade titles we enjoy playing together, or experiencing a new RPG in each other's company, or setting up a LAN session and blowing zombies up in Left 4 Dead.

That sort of thing.

That's extremely social.


So... what local pubs do you like to hang out in?

*smirks*
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hah just talking bout girls who wouldnt be considered attractive! so in the world regardkess of club theres a few,

ok but computer games dont make you NEW friends,

as for pub/clubs, doyles/whelans in Dublin!

but maybe your from a country town in which case your fucked and there is no where to go!
 
Yield said:
I wanna do security at uni. But hopefully i'll get paid.



And this. ^^
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well yield, she porb does like you, i think your gonna have to play the game!

Invite her to a comedy gig my suggestion then have a laugh keep chatting, and as your chatting move your head slowly closer to hers and if she hasnt got out of the way go for it

remember hitch? man 90% of way woman 10%

it sucks

oh and that does work! trust me :-)
 
No, she hates me. Convince her otherwise please.
 
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Words of Irony said:
This isn't true either. I made a new friend through a gathering of people who was simply hanging around playing video games.


I'm from Cobh.

'nuff said.
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yep! if you dont like GAA and been over agressive your screwed!

havent said that i was out after the tip match and had great fun! oops where irishing up the forum!

well the computer gaming thing is good, its just you your probably invisible to anyone that may get on with you very well outside your friends!

pity!

and im still not putting down gaming! you cant meet randomers! its friends of friends!
 
Yield said:
No, she hates. Convince her otherwise please.
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may i suggest expanding the social circle? shit thats always a dead end with you people isnt it?

eh how do you know she hates you? think thats the F, if she meet you one on one she doesnt hate u
 
Because we planned to meet up for the SECOND time and I said I'd text her on sunday to meet for monday. I did, it was a perfect text as well. She never text me back AND she blanked me on facebook. What the fuck?
 
Yield said:
Because we planned to meet up for the SECOND time and I said I'd text her on sunday to meet for monday. I did, it was a perfect text as well. She never text me back AND she blanked me on facebook. What the fuck?
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hmmm ok, my advice is to just leave it with her!

nearly every guy I know has been in this situation, and..........................................your gonna hate this, do something outside your norm that involves new people,thers more than 1 hot ENFP in the UK,


also she may off been offline while online,you just dont know but admittedly the signs arent good,
 
Yeah the boats sailed on that one. But i did so much, jumped through so many hoops just to get a shot. Things I would never do normally. I just don't understand the behaviour. She was the one who suggested we meet up in the first place! I felt like I gave a lot, personally. Got nothing back though.
 
Yield said:
Yeah the boats sailed on that one. But i did so much, jumped through so many hoops just to get a shot. Things I would never do normally. I just don't understand the behaviour. She was the one who suggested we meet up in the first place! I felt like I gave a lot, personally. Got nothing back though.
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yep it sucks! Only thing I can say is your not alone there!In a similar situation myself,in the long run you'll be glad you tried and as hard as it is get yourself out there, join something of interest!

heres a theory i sent a general message to 3 of my mates to ask them to go to a comedy club, one i really fancy, one who is one of my best mates and another who i only casually know

The only one that texted back was the one i casually know

makes ya think eh?

nothing logical about life
 
Okay on a last note, I'm not gonna stop until I get a logical answer to her behaviour. If that means cranial surgery like research on ENFPs, so be it.
 
I volunteer at animal shelters, swim, martial arts, horse ride, go to china town with my best friend, play bass guitar, sing, draw and improve on my languages.
 
To meet new people I:

joined a running group
am in training with the crisis hotline
hang out in forums like this

To socialize with current friends I:

go out to eat
go to the movies or theater
go to the beach, or other vacationy spots
have get togethers at my home or theirs
hang out at the neighborhood pool
run, bike, or walk

I have met people I like during training for my various volunteer activities, but the relationships don't seem to last past training and then I don't see them anymore. I really like the people I'm meeting in my current training, but most of them are young enough to be my kids. They don't really want to socialize with me.
 
I find it enjoyable to socialize a little at my dance classes, but I always enjoy dancing by myself at home even more. But performing forces me to get out there and talk to people, so maybe it balances out. I also really love shopping... granted, I'd rather shop alone than with another person, but the whole getting out and experiencing people part is what counts, right? This is only my second day back at work since leaving my eating disorder program, and I've already been forcing myself to be more social here. The isolation of having the eating disorder needed to end so I could recover... so I'm hoping to be able to create some deeper friendships here.
 
Nausus said:
I volunteer at animal shelters, swim, martial arts, horse ride, go to china town with my best friend, play bass guitar, sing, draw and improve on my languages.
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cool! your a jack of all trades and somehow an infj aswell well done!

finally getting off the mark!
 
smiffy said:
haha do you know how many girls in the world would like to be hit on every once in a while?

when someone is going to chat you up, you have to fancy the person physically, otherwise why would you chat to someone you dont find attractive then after a great conversation go, see ya later
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...I understand there are some women to enjoy the idea of male attention. With my lacking self confidence, and my marriage, I find it hard to strike up a conversation with a complete stranger who has obviously been eye f***ing me for the last hour.There will be no satisfaction from either party...My husband finds it a flattering testament to his obvious male superiority...which I also don't get...I just dont like getting hit on....how I ever got married I will never know...I hated dating, I hated clubs and bars, I drank and hung out with a very tight knit group of people. Thats where I am comfortable.
The last time I went to a club I had to drive home a very drunk 18 year old boy who was begging me to take him home with me.
The time before that I ran into people who once thought I was dead and I wanted to keep it that way.
The time before that I got completly manhandled by a guy who couldnt speak english. I have a mean left hook!
Im awkward and im shy...two traits that dont fit into social situations.
 
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