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I'd like to start a discussion on this. It interests me. I will not use the term because society has decided white males are to be silenced. However I'll be honest, I've never had the desire, the thought or inclination to use a term like that. Since I can remember being taught that phrase has always been associated with oppression and slavery. My question is though if it is in fact that (which it seems to be) how does anyone benifit from using it?Read the thread title, and am wondering how this applies to my d-bag ho-ness...
Ah ha! <lightbulb>
Not just women, stop being so sexist. It's more appropriate to say social groups. But since we're on this topic, it's reclaiming a derogatory term and using it for empowerment instead. For instance, nigga. I say "my nigga" all the time. My husband is black, my kids are mixed blasian (black latino asian) I think it's important for them to be able to turn this word that once was used against them in negative ways into something that celebrates brotherhood/sisterhood.
THIS! Oh gawd I've missed you my nigga! :kissy: (anyone who takes offense to that is an asshole)
Now I know that I am not liked here. People think that I am trolling in everything I say. I keep telling them there's nothing further from the truth and they keep telling me I am lying. My point Is, I do not mean to offend. All I am doing is asking the questions no one wants to address in my mind in order to gain a better understanding of society in general.
How does one benifit by calling others or or being called by others a term that is only associated with negativity?