- MBTI
- INTJ
You mean how would I try to resolve a conflict.A similar thread was posted on an NT forum with less feelings based replies. That being said @Katniss Neverbeef, @Ren, @Pin (minus the ATM comment. Seriously dude, what did you mean by that?), @Free and @James have given great replies. Somehow this thread turned into a pile of shit, but hey that happens in group forum conversations, and sometimes you gotta deconstruct and rebuild to come to agreeable opinions. I think if some members would be more open minded we'd do much better.
When I asked, "What makes a good man" I was referring to exactly what I asked. Should others possess these qualities? Yes I believe they should, however I think that discussion might be better served in this thread, although I do not care if it's discussed in here as this is an open forum, blah blah blah. . .
Good ethics, morals and values are important to me. @Katniss Neverbeef touched upon these in one of her posts.
■ Ethics describes a generally accepted set of moral principles.
■ Morals describes the goodness or badness or right or wrong of actions.
■ Values describes individual or personal standards of what is valuable or important.
Yes understanding what issues need to be addressed is subjective. Let's say you're dating a woman. How would you resolve a conflict? You can choose your own conflict.
I try to be accommodating as possible. If there's something she wants and it's obtainable, why not let her have it? She wants time away? Ok. Wants to go to school and it means more work for me? Ok.
She's nagging me to take the trash out? Take the trash out.
I suppose in all seriousness though is the most conflict comes when it involves my own freedom. This is also what's most difficult for me to resolve. I want to go somewhere, I'm told it would be better if I stay. I offer that both of us go. I'm told that doesn't work, none of us are going. After my best attempt to resolve this in a reasonable way, I go anyway.