Happy Phantom
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Maybe we’re all the same person.
Mostly at night when the aliens are trying to probe me. I WILL NOT BE SOCIALLY CONSTIPATED BY THE ANNUNAKI!
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Maybe we’re all the same person.
Mostly at night when the aliens are trying to probe me. I WILL NOT BE SOCIALLY CONSTIPATED BY THE ANNUNAKI!
Maybe we’re all the same person.
It could be assumed that by writing between brackets you already think that's a bit over the top.
So what did you do that you are so unworthy of this fella's trust?
Doesn't matter. What do you think about it? Do you think it makes sense, or that it's complete bogus?
Should prolly have mentioned that was meant in a sarcastic way. My bad. Sorry. (truly)Are you trying to say I’m a whore for that? It wasn’t even a date, but I was going out with a student who was moving back overseas. For your information I am a virgin, and simply want to get married and have children in the near future, and I’ve been waiting for my bf who moved back over seas for 2 years.
He never trusted me to begin with, before I ever did anything. Being so rude and assuming things when you don’t even know everything that’s happened is honestly disgusting.
Darling, that sound pretty terrible to me, to be honest. Because it seems to me that desire to be the most important person comes from very unhealthy place... You're a couple, not a master and his obedient mistress. You don't have to worship him and do everything so he can feel significant... Yes, you love him, he matters to you, but you have the right to have friends and other things that are meaningful to you, your life doesn't have to revolve around him. And just because he doesn't feel like talking to his female friends, it doesn't have to be the same for you - you're two individuals, it can be different for both of you.I had done that where I just wanted to keep in touch with certain people, and I kept decreasing the number until it was down to just one person, a guy who was kind of like a brother to me because he’d given me lots of advice about previous relationships and all, and I told my bf but he ended up being like “is he more important than me? What if I did the same thing? I don’t want you to cut them off because I made you, but I want you to put me first. I stopped talking to other girls because I don’t have any desire to talk to them since I have you”...
And I guess I was kind of glad he wasn’t talking to other girls anymore so I could relate...
Honestly, if i had to lay out there everything he’s done in the course of our relationship, it really is pretty terrible... no physical abuse, but a pretty severe case of manipulation to put it simply...
After so many discussions about it, I think we’ve both fixed some of our own problems and been able to improve our relationship... it’s been about 6 months since we’ve had any major problems and we’ve finally been communicating pretty well about everything, but I guess I’m concerned because I keep hearing that people don’t change and it just gets worse...
Are you trying to say I’m a whore for that? It wasn’t even a date, but I was going out with a student who was moving back overseas. For your information I am a virgin, and simply want to get married and have children in the near future, and I’ve been waiting for my bf who moved back over seas for 2 years.
He never trusted me to begin with, before I ever did anything. Being so rude and assuming things when you don’t even know everything that’s happened is honestly disgusting.
Love is feeling deep empathy and concern for someone. It is not conditional; it is about the other person's well-being, even if they make you feel lousy. Real love is familial love, in my opinion. Maybe companionate.
He doesn't love you. He may in the future, but I wouldn't wait around that long because he disrespects you and controls you in a pretty abusive way. .
A harsh truth, but the truth nonetheless.If at any time you feel threatened by your partner you need to wake up and take a good look at your relationship.
Haha. I should Xanax post more often. :icedream:A harsh truth, but the truth nonetheless.
You should, lol. Just enough loss of inhibition to lay out all out on the table while preserving your good intent. :]Haha. I should Xanax post more often. :icedream:
For your information I am a virgin, and simply want to get married and have children in the near future, and I’ve been waiting for my bf who moved back over seas for 2 years.
Zoinks! Thats what big pharma wants you to like.. do maaanHaha. I should Xanax post more often. :icedream:
I’m an INFJ, and my ENTP boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. Sometimes he can be pretty controlling and jealous. He didn’t like for me to have male friends, so I cut off all of my male friends about a year into our relationship because it was causing a lot of arguments. of course I have to talk to males at work, and male family members, and he doesn’t mind that, and doesn’t mind me spending time with my girl friends and family instead of spending time with him.
A lot of my friends said their boyfriends wouldn’t let them talk to other guys either, but I’ve also heard it was too controlling and a sign of abuse.
What are your opinions on this?
I’m an INFJ, and my ENTP boyfriend and I have been together for over 2 years. Sometimes he can be pretty controlling and jealous. He didn’t like for me to have male friends, so I cut off all of my male friends about a year into our relationship because it was causing a lot of arguments. of course I have to talk to males at work, and male family members, and he doesn’t mind that, and doesn’t mind me spending time with my girl friends and family instead of spending time with him.
A lot of my friends said their boyfriends wouldn’t let them talk to other guys either, but I’ve also heard it was too controlling and a sign of abuse.
What are your opinions on this?
I don't find constructive criticism demeaning, hell, it's doing you a favor. If someone is willing to continue to criticize you, especially after you've failed a million times, they probably love you.
How should genuine love be expressed, in your opinion?
This question just reminds me of @Tin Man 's title, and makes me want to ask, "What is a respectable amount of screaming in a relationship?"