I'm sorry if this is too personal, but how were your parents careless and hinder you from finding anything you like? I have a two year old and don't want to make that mistake.
what mbti is, is really the "purpose" you feel your life has.
when it goes wrong, etc your purpose becomes money...
these people are what we know as the selfish capitalists, one whome ive got too much of.
they perceive their off spring as mere material, a status symbol. at least if an esfp gone wrong, etc zero Ni, life in immaturity.
those people are walking corpses, they dont develop into any direction other than backwards.
psychological injuries are nothing when you add the permanent physical ones up to top of it.
as long as you remember to stay cognitively mature and not give up of it, you develop forwards.
and immature esfps.. they absolutely cant understand how someone else could be hurt if they damage another if it doesnt hurt them themselves. es_p's the worst type when immature. completely careless of others.
Ni, ability to see the consequences for es_p's, and when they dont care of others, they have no need for Ni and thus they destroy lives without ever knowing of it nor even caring if they somehow were capable to understand.
for all types, we have to learn to be selfless first to find real happiness, but for infj's thats easy. otherwise you end up living in a delusion like my mother.
ive actually came to the conclusion, mbti is everything about self and selflessness. neither in itself is good, you must have both but when you have both, you stop longing for that something you didnt know what it was until you found it. (which is to have both selflessness and self in the same package.)
thus life is not a battle between evil and good, its a battle between immaturity and maturity.
Void, because afterlife doesnt make sense.
the key is to figure out a way it does, but then.. that requires you to abandon the whole concept and build it yourself with aid of science if you like.
