It wasn't about them seeing our motivation to be parents, it was them seeing the value of life and courage. If you set an example that you don't care for others (as a parent) then the child will see that as the normal behavior. If the parent is seen as some kind of coward then the child will lose respect for them as a person. Children learn by example, not just words.
It was not about my needs or feeling. What possibly could I gain from running my ass into a burning building other than personal harm to myself.
Granted, that part of the post was really secondary, to actually helping a baby that was in need.
That's what I was saying.