[INFJ] You know you're an INFJ when...

[indigoINFJempath]

you know you're an INFJ when you can estimate how much peoples egos cost them

Yes

 

[indigoINFJempath]

You know you're an INFJ when you absorb the moods of the people you are with, and they ask, "What's the matter with you?"

Yes

 

[indigoINFJempath]

I'm on a roll.....

Even on an INFJ forum, you still feel like a square peg in a round hole......

Yep

 

[indigoINFJempath]

When you naturally and genuinely always want to do the best for others even if it's at your own expense.

I have done this for many years and only recently started turning this around by realizing the relationships I've been involved in haven't always been healthy but rather one-sided which is not healthy for me.

 

[Deleted member 10171]

when you feel like you were born 'old'

"Born old" agree but I think infj's also have a "forever young and free spirit" I still want to bounce around on my trampoline when I'm 100!

Yep Yep...(listen until end )

I'd like a one way ticket to the island of misfit toys! Yay!!

 

[Deleted member 10171]

when kids and animals (you don't know) all magnetically follow you around....

 

[James]

When you're in a room with people, and you sense there's a row coming, before anyone even says anything. And you want to leave, but you stay and try to mediate. Then afterwards? You tell yourself next time, you're not getting involved.

 

[indigoINFJempath]

You know you're an INFJ when your best friend is me, myself and I....(OK and my spider senses too).

 

[indigoINFJempath]

Yep Yep...(listen until end )

I've always loved this. I wish I could "like" your post but I guess I'm too much of a misfit to be worthy of a "like" button.

 

[CosmicINFJ]

I've always loved this. I wish I could "like" your post but I guess I'm too much of a misfit to be worthy of a "like" button.

The like button will be forthcoming. You'll see

 

[indigoINFJempath]

The like button will be forthcoming. You'll see

Oh goody!

 

[Sandie33]

I've always loved this. I wish I could "like" your post but I guess I'm too much of a misfit to be worthy of a "like" button.

Keep posting it will come

 

[indigoINFJempath]

Keep posting it will come

Thanks

 

[Wyote]

Spoiler: You get this tattoo

 

[WonkyOracle]

When you go into work making Snow white and 7 dwarf references that nobody understand because you're carrying on a conversation you had on INFJs the night before.

 

[indigoINFJempath]

I'm not really Hyper Sensitive, More like Hyper Aware and very Sensitive. Not all Non INFJ's are pesky. Of course I'm partial to NF people. That's just me. It's a feel the Love kind of thing. Yes, I really am contemplating getting a puppy next year.
You now you're an INFJ when you feel the need (at least internally) to correct peoples impression of you. (Well some people, because for others it's just not worth the effort)

I've experienced dogs as extroverts & cats as introverts. Just saying...but they're both NFs in their own cute ways. Have you ever had pets? They are very therapeutic. Happy for you.

 

[CosmicINFJ]

@indigoINFJempath yes, but it's been awhile

 

[indigoINFJempath]

when you often wonder if there was a better way to say that

Or you suddenly realize there was more than one way to interpret and not what you intended.

 

[Deleted member 10171]

I have done this for many years and only recently started turning this around by realizing the relationships I've been involved in haven't always been healthy but rather one-sided which is not healthy for me.

Yes, sometimes our desire to help is often a detriment to overlooking our own needs. However, I do think the "core identity" of an infj is always driven to help others and is something that never leaves us - it's just knowing/discerning when it's right to step in and when to step back.

 

[Deleted member 10171]

You're suspicious of people's motives....because you hope they are coming from a sincere and authentic place.