No, I think you're right. I do this myself as an INFJ. In fact, it's something I've done since I was a young kid, come to quick conclusions about things. I think the issue for me is that there are so many young people on this forum who haven't experienced enough yet. I don't mean to be dismissive of younger people, but until you've experienced what it feels like to be constantly judged by what you look like (and I don't just mean high school judgment when you're 17 or 18, or starting to experience the world in your early 20s, but judgment that you've lived with all your life), it can be difficult to empathize with others and understand where they're coming from. I don't need to invite that into my life any more than is necessary. I have to reserve my "sanity points" for just dealing with the world at large.