LucyJr

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I've really been enjoying reading your posts! I admire how informed and articulate you are!

Thank you! I love your avatar! It's so beautiful!

thank you

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I just had to pick one when I first joined the forum. After about 1 minute of searching, I found the picture I liked and stuck with it. Plus an eagle's lifestyle has some congruity with mine.

You are welcome friend. Love Is what we are

Hey there!
I know neither of us is the sum of the arguments and debates that we have...it’s nice to have you on the forums, you seem to be a very optimistic person, something we need more of. Cheers!

I asked because I wanted to know how I might appear to other women. There were quite a few women who called me "the quiet strong guy". I see the "quiet confidence" or "quiet strength", but why did you call it "velvet steel"? I don't see the "velvet". Would you care to elaborate on that? And how, for example, does the INTJ's quiet confidence differ from that of an ISTJ? I know a few ISTJs and I'd say they are far stronger than the average INTJ (who have one foot in the clouds).

"Almost all of them are very attractive to women" – what is it that makes an INTJ attractive? How would you describe that attraction?

Well, that is why the wing is included in the enneagram...since people are never just one. Also, an unhealthy 4 acts like a different type and it all gets a bit confusing for me. But, like you, I found 4 and 5 most like me...and easily 4 more than 5.

Welcome presence means you have a kind, caring, and wise spirit.

You bring a very welcome presence to the forums. Thank you

Welcome to the forums!

I hope you enjoy your time here.