Don't worry, that's not what I meant. I'm neither very spiritual nor do I believe in more than I can see, however I'd be happy to be proven otherwise. I agree with you completely in that I think we don't respect our technology and have no idea of what it's capable of.
That's a question I fear. A good one indeed, but a scary one. Maybe we have to realize that the strive for more (especially money) unlike 'extreme' secular science is something humanity has known for a while. Accumulating wealth and goods has been the goal of many for centuries. What I'm trying to get at is that I think that the sociopathic tendencies have been there for a long time, our era just expresses them differently. So if humanity has managed to survive up until know, there must be something we're doing right, otherwise we'd be long extinct by now, don't you think?
Edit: Same here, I'm trying to figure it out as I go.