No, I don't think they get it at all. And many don't have the empathy to really care even if they do get it. I have been around individuals, but not whole groups, that are as good at listening, and are so supportive. It's really great. The "J" function among other things can be very organized, and even obsessive. It's one way people really get things done. Creative types can often be extremely obsessive. It's hard to explain, but we INFJ's have weak J's in many areas other J types don't like say keeping our house orderly. But in othe things, such as creativity or just plain thoughts in our heads, we are quite orderly and know where everything is. Mine comes out in these types of endevors.