Radiantshadow

The pictures you liked were by Attila Kozo, in case you wanted to explore more of them. :]
Sorry I am so late, it took me a while to find out who the photographer was.

Good Morning. Have a wonderful day :becky:

Call it what you will; pondering a lot over the recent years, reading more, studying more... I'm not sure exactly what it is, but you come across as a particularly profound/intelligent individual. I'm not sure exactly why I predicted medical careers to be honest, you just seem... I don't know, more certain of yourself. It seems like you've been planning a bit, and many people I know that "plan ahead" do so for medical careers.

What do I enjoy doing most?....hmm, I'm not entirely sure, I do very much enjoy helping people in some form or another... I feel a special kind of happiness when I'm helping another human in some way (medical, psychological, or otherwise). Psychology is just enthralling, the subject itself keeps me motivated - there's always more to learn... I guess I'd say my interest (currently) lies in a small branch of Abnormal Psych (Depression, and Anxiety related disorders) + Cognitive Behavioral Therapy. Sometimes the physiology of it all gets a bit tedious, but that's just me... I'm a bit better with concepts.

Yup, new perspectivers are always good, though not always easy to come by... I suppose that's what I enjoy most about college - the in depth discussions - there's always so many different perspectives.

Heh, I figured something medical - there's some intertwining of the neurology/psychology fields... I took a Neuro Psych (Bio Psych) course, very interesting stuff. Never been good at math myself, but you just seem well... smarter, for lack of better term : P

I'm actually thinking of a career in Counseling, I can certainly relate to that feeling of joy... but I'm still having some trouble deciding which path to follow. I'm a psych major who's basically all over the place; I find so many courses interesting and I'm always doing some sort of volunteer work... if only there was more time and money.

Anyway, I'm getting a bit off topic now, I'm sure you'll excel at what ever field you end up in. As for my thread, I always find placing myself in new "situations" useful and actually a bit entertaining... I like to see different perspectives on such issues, but there's not often much interest.

I'm sure you hear this a lot, but for someone your age... you're very articulate and intelligent (from what I've observed here so far). So, I'm a bit curious...if you don't mind me asking - What are your future career plans?

Hmmm, I will definitely try to keep that in mind. Thank you very much.

WOW... that is amazing! Thank you for sharing that! I am extremely close with several enfjs and they do not receive my criticisms well at all. In fact they become infuriated. I know not all within a type react alike, but this does give me hope. I guess it really depends on where they are at in their life, how willing to receive negative news, and how much they are willing to self-analyze. I guess I'm always afraid that letting people have my words and feelings in writing will be used against me. I think your approach, and willingness to make a stand was very brave, and I am happy for you, and your mother, as well.

Or a pasture of peace? Does that mean I can leave my bullet proof vest at the gate? Cuz this thing was gettiing heavy wearing it in the INTJ forum.
~:cowgirl:~

I am getting to know the pasture, thanks for asking. It looks like there is plenty of green grass and blue skies, what else can a cowgirl ask for?

You don't have to steal credit from me, I give it freely, when it's due. So if you get it from me, no theft involved, it's yours.

I know it is somewhat late, but Ty for welcoming me.

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Thank you :becky:

Oh, dear... no. http://dresdencodak.com/2007/02/08/pom/

I'm all right. And you?

*hugs*

That is good to hear! I can certainly relate to that feeling.

I am actually experiencing one of the few times that I regret taking my leave from the forum. It did nothing for me at all, and I think that February would've been a tad more bearable if I had been on the forum...It really is a good emotional release for me, so now I am just trying to let it all go..

Now however, I am on spring break, so that makes me happier than I have been in a while. : )

Thank you! I have missed you greatly...How have you been?

They actually prefer directness, in my experience. They aren't good at hints, and they don't like to guess. If they care about you, and something is wrong, they want to know. If they can help, they want to know. They don't seem to have the ability to sniff out other's feelings, and infjs are masters of disguise. We're hard for some types to read. Intjs seem to like people they can take at face value, because then they can relax, but infjs require decoding, which they are not good at (with people), and this is distressing to them.

Make your desire known to them, and they will most likely try to better accommodate you. My cousin (INTJ) calls me his sister, but would forget to include me when something happened in his personal life. He didn't realize he was hurting me, until I called him and ended up crying saying I felt out of the loop. He said I could always call & ask if I wanted to know something, but I explained that it hurt me, and made me feel disconnected to find out from someone else. He definitely took that to heart, and always calls & updates me on important matters, now.

Hmmm... Have you asked follow up questions?