oh so you're from canada then? thats cool, i've been up there a few times. toronoto once and i don't really remember the other places, they couldn't have been too exciting. i've always wanted to check out quebec, as i think thats where my family migrated from. i'm pretty sure we're french canadian. so you've been stateside before? whatd ya think and where are some of your favorite parts of canada?
and yeah, lately i have been. i mean i'm a firm believer that we teach others how to treat us, we get what we give, etc etc. so it would seem a safe assumption i'm not approaching these situations in the most effective manner. problem is i'm not really sure what else to do, sometimes i think i can be a bit overbearing, i mean i try to respect peoples boundaries, but it's tough when you finally find someone you Want to talk to beyond surface topics, well it is for me because most people i know don't want to. i mean even my family would rather talk about stuff i could care less about to avoid disclosing something more personal, i think its where my frusturation comes from. and to be honest with you, i don't really know Why i want to talk about these things to begin with, to me it seems most people are content with knowing just about any acquaintance on a certain level and leave it at that, even family or intimate relationships.
i think i need to work on my patience, and probably pay a little more attention to the details, see that's another weak point of mine, head in the clouds type of dynamic with me, but details can say more about a person than what they're telling you sometimes i'd suppose. anyway just kind of thinking out loud here. any thoughts?