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aeon said:

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LOL!!!

Thanks Ian, this is great..

Disintegration is my very fave of their albums. Figures

aeon said:

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I know this experiment and have read loads about attachment theory. It has been a major research for me, attachment theory, in fact, because I lived in what’s known as “the anxious avoidant trap”.

The anxious avoidant trap is known as the most toxic pairing in all of attachment theory because it creates a never ending loop where the anxious “baby” ( as she explained ) grows up and is in a relationship with the “you know what - f you” baby.. Hence the title “The anxious avoidant trap.

The anxious partner is in a constant state of chase for love, attention, depth, and security - while the avoidant runs like Hell to avoid it.

For the anxious partner it’s like dying of thirst in a barren desert with a giant bottle of fresh water sitting just out of arms reach, which you just can’t seem to grasp. It’s a horrible existence and the only way out is to actually die to that relationship, heal a good deal of trauma, and learn to love and respect yourself so that one day when someone good comes along, you can healthily receive it.

Never again. I would advise every human on earth to avoid the avoidant - at all costs. You will not change it.