infj

Hi, guys! First of all, sorry for my terrible english. Ok, let's go with the telenovela. I meet this INTP guy on a dating app. We live in different cities (not too far away) He and I started talking; he calls me on the phone almost every day, sometimes we talk only a few minutes, other...

Hello, to give everyone some background: I'm currently 23 and on the verge of graduating with a bachelor degree in computer science. I grew up with an uncle who was more like my brother and he was pretty extroverted which in the past made me confused about why I wanted to be alone and play video...

Hello. I'm in a pickle. I have been studying law for two years and I do not like it. It feels like it's slowly munching away at my soul, one bite at a time. On the other hand, I think I would like being a lawyer and doing something meaningful like helping families and underdogs and whatnot...

On which side of the spectrum are you rather, chaotic or organised?

Hello there. I'm on the last semester of my information technology bachelor though my university grades/scores are very good (A+ for final half duration of study) But unfortunately I've found i don't like engineering jobs. I'm a male person 23 years old. I need your advice to choose. What do you...

So I've recently heard a louder "uproar" of information on the topic of 5G technology. I've heard it could be very harmful -- like cancer level -- due to high frequency radio waves, which wouldn't be radio waves anymore due to its higher frequency, more like UV level or above. I've heard about...

For INFJs only, post your Enneagram tritype here with the wings. Mine is: 2w1 - 6w5 - 9w1

I wonder if INFJs or INTJs relate to this. I am often clumsy when I am interacting with the external environment. I injure myself at times, sometimes serious. I wonder if you all can relate to this.

Hello everyone! I have always been confused about my emotions, which could be very cold when they shouldn't be, to the point I almost believed I am apathetic. I have realized recently, however, that I haven't been always this way (actually I was quite the contrary), and developed the theory...

So, prior to joining this forum, I hadn’t heard anything about Enneagrams. What are they? Does anyone have any resources that can help me understand? (Besides posts on the forum) Thanks!

It would be interesting to hear other types hereabouts (ENTJs, INTPs, ENTPs—you know who you are?) describe how they develop their cognitive functions too. I am interested in what activities you engage in to develop the four functions. To illustrate: Ni ~ Introverted Intuition: This probably...

Hello all, I'm getting really curious about the possible links between being INFJ, and having an affinity for symbols and symbology. Furthermore, I wonder if this is related to sentimentality; for instance, liking to keep around 'significant' objects. Or more abstractly, having a tendency to...

William Morris (perhaps an INFJ himself) once wrote: 'The only safe way of reading a Utopia is to consider it the expression of the temperament of its author.’ Along those lines, what would an INFJ utopia look like? For me, it would deprioritise competition and status, acquisition for its own...

Welcome, Let's create a thread that focuses on what it is like to be an adult, mature, or 'older' INFJ. We can discuss MBTI, Jung, brain and personality development, how our introversion changes with years, perspectives that come with life experience, careers, and our personal experiences of...

What is your take on solitude? INFJs seem to crave quality alone time. On the other hand they may feel excluded, different or just lonely therefore. Do you value solitude or does it give you a bit of a scare, fellow INFJs?

I'm doing some research into my fellow INFJs. Do you think there needs to be different approaches when marketing to introverts in general and INFJs in particular versus to extroverts? Given the complexity of the personality disposition, it seems that it (the company, marketing, product...

I Found that I am in INFJ Old Soul with enneagram 4w5 And my Zodiac sign is Aries, is there anybody who has similar traits and what is your perception regarding this complex type ?

I hate myself a lot. Like for years the main words repeatedly going round my head are 'i hate myself, i hate myself', 'stay away from people', 'im sorry'. I know loads of people dont like themselves/hate themselves, but do any of you feel it really strongly? Every time I socialise, I can't help...

Hello Everyone, I am working on a psychology project examining peoples personality, personal values both in and out of the workplace and how these factors are predictive of various work-relevant outcomes. Naturally, I thought this community may be interested in participating and would be a...

I have always been empathetic, emotional, living out others feelings. Recently I flipped the switch and decided to see mentally how to turn it completely off. As it turns out it is possible to sway the other extreme and actually smile at the degradation of others as an INFJ. It's mad and it...

Hey! :grinning: So I've been wondering how well INFJ personality and the role of a business owner mix together? Do infj's strive for such a thing, or is it something that they naturally shy away from? Personally I've tried freelancing and dropshipping so I loved the freedom aspect of...

What's your experience of being HSP and INFJ at the same time? Long time ago I read that INFJ tend to be less sensitive and emotional than everybody (stereotypically) thinks of them, but there are lots of things beside MBTI. And one of them is being Highly Sensitive Person, and that can be a...

As written above, is it possible to have an average while being dominated by Introverted Intuition? Are here any INFJ with IQ in average range?

Ive been very interested in numerology for a while now and learned that my birth date ads up to that of a master number. 33/6 I noticed that most traits ascribed to the 33 are common to INFJ's too. Is there any one out here who recognizes that and how do you experience being both a master...

Have you ever been in a toxic relationship or experience that left you so broken that you weren't sure whether you had a mental illness or whether it was just because of your MBTI? How did you deal with it and steer clear of it? How did you accept yourself in terms of MBTI? I ask this because...

Hello there, I new here. In my introduction, I promised my tale of heartbreak. Well, my 6 and half year relationship ended about 2 months ago, and pretty abruptly. I was living with this girl. She was my best friend. She was the one I thought I was going to marry and have a family with, but...

Hi all, I'll try to be as concise and unbiased as possible but there's a lot :sweatsmile: I'm a female ISFJ who really needs advice and has exhausted all other options of opinions from my closest friends and my mother. This is about the same INFJ guy who is in the same university friendship...

I didn't quite know how to word the topic, but as an INFJ the friendship process has been an interesting one. When younger, I had a lot of friends, but then as I developed into my INFJ personality throughout life the amount of friends and ease of creating new friends diminished. Unfortunately...

Please look at my Quora page: https://www.quora.com/profile/Queena-Han# I mostly answer questions about INFJ.. Now I'm not sure if I'm an INFJ because there is this guy that tells me that 6w4 and 4w5 is theoretically impossible.. but how come I tested correct for 1w9, 6w4, and 4w5?? He's really...

When I was a kid, I would often tell my mom “I feel like I want to cry but I don’t know why”. I would just feel sad and I didn’t even know why. Is this a common thing for INFJs? Especially as kids?