infj

I'm curious to hear of others experience with the infamous door slam. Personally, I have had to do it several times in the last four years. And I kind of like the fact I possess this quality. It makes me feel a tad badass. But it is always always a last resort. I feel as if it is a quality of...

I don't have a problem with it, I'm just curious. I've never joined a group about (note I didn't say 'for') a different type, but it doesn't necessarily mean I wouldn't want to in future, who knows. So if you're not an INFJ but are part of this group, what led you to join? Do you like INFJ's...

Ever felt the need for room to breathe? When was the last time you've felt like this? https://www.lifereaction.com/room-breathe-infj/

In 1988 the economist magazine cover (Google it) predicted that in 2018 a new world currency would be required. This signals the end of the petrol dollar and the USA will be thrown into a new depression. China/Russia and the one belt/one road initiative and the Gold backed Reminbi come into...

Hi! I realised my first post was way too long but I haven't been able to delete (it's been less than 24 hrs so I thought I would be able to) >_< Why is he recently switching between cold/distant and friendly towards me? I'm a female ISFJ and I have known this INFJ for 2 years now. We both...

Hi! I've been lurking on this forum a few times but I decided to join ^_^ I'm a female ISFJ and I have known this INFJ for 2 years now. We both study the same thing but he's 2.5 years younger than me if that's relevant :p We've also both never actually been in a relationship. I'm usually more...

According to any tests I have ever had (online), as well as any blogs/ articles I have read (online), I would be an INFJ. Well, there was this time when I was an INTJ, but quite frankly, I was projecting my desire to have a more T approach to things in life, which I don't have. But one of the...

I'm surprised to see this hasn't been made yet. Let's type some youtubers. I haven't found any suspected INFJs yet, but I'll keep looking Edit: If you're typing a new youtuber, please do a detailed analysis of why you think they are that type, including instances of behavior to prove your...

Hey guys! I'm new to the forum and as an INFJ to the core I'm in love with it! I'm female, 25, and I'm addressing you because I'm interested in your experiences with getting into a new job, integrating into your team and over the lung run, how you did you manage to become a valuable asset...

As a trait of self, would you say that you're high in anxiety? Or not so much? I only ask because the longer I'm alive and the more people I interact with, the more I suspect that I am a rather anxious person by nature. Aka, if I permit myself to be left alone with certain thoughts, I'm quite...

I'm pretty sure that based on the order of functions that I am an INFJ especially pertaining to how I have always had insight into future events and people which I could rarely explain and would always astonish others.... However, I sometimes get confused and wonder if I'm actually an INFP, and...

Not entirely sure how an INFJ thinks and so would love to receive advice on what to do in this situation... We knew each other for few months, and we have been hanging out every other day. I've told her that I like her a month after we met, and she said she's not ready but we stayed close...

So for the past couple of years I've gone through some pretty rough friendships, and sadly have had to do the INFJ door slam, and have also had to walk away from other several one-sided relationships. Have been struggling a little bit the past few weeks now that I've realized finding a close...

I found out I was an INFJ fairly recently and was hoping for advice regarding careers. I love planning, organizing, animals and listening to people, so my top job options were a vet tech, counselor, or event planner. The thing is, I have anxiety and don't think I would be allowed to become a...

I wanted to start a conversation about INFJs making friends with others. Before I fully knew my MBTI type, it would always frustrate me when there was this group of friends, and I really only could connect with one but not the majority of the group. The one friend that I did connect with would...

That makes me special, right? Perhaps the answer is a resounding No! "....we started noticing that little things in the definitions of the letters seemed inconsistent, inaccurate when it came to real life, or even hurtful or mean." The author of the below article gives a broad, if not humorous...

I've always been an INFJ according to MBTI online tests, even since I was much younger. However, through an exhaustive search, I've come to a place where living in the present is much more important to me than having the whole world figured out haha. I feel like I'd be more accurately typed as...

Hey, I noticed mbti is popular in States but hardly anyone in Europe knows about it. Im 35 and searching for my infj soulmate...

Okay, so I've been reading on here a bit and I've ran across several people saying that INFJ's and ESFJ's operate on different wavelengths and it's almost impossible to fully connect with them. Can anyone elaborate on this and maybe give some examples???

A lot of the time when I take online tests for cognitive functions, I get Fe and Ni as equals. I try to take many of them to get the most average result over time as well. However, the more I'm taking them, the more I'm seeing a trend of getting higher Fe, and it recommends I may be an ENFJ...

Hi guys, just thought to share what i think is a pretty remarkable story even if my partner and I didnt share the same MBTI. 3 years ago I got out of a 5 year relationship and my first long term one of that in which about 6 weeks later i started dating again right away lol. I had attended a...

So I have been feeling very lonely for awhile now. Which of course isn't a new feeling for an INFJ but I'm in sort of a funk right now friendship wise. My husband is an ISTJ and our relationship is odd but works. A lot of times, I seem to be annoyed with his mannerisms but I also value his...

Hello everyone! I am a shy female INFJ. I have this friend who is an INFJ and I've known him for about 4 years now. We have always hung out casually as we are part of the same friend group. Even if this might seem a bit ridiculous, I have had a crush on him 3 times. He is quite a reserved INFJ...

Has anyone on the forum had, or felt like they had a "psychic experience" or similar ? http://www.personalitypage.com/html/INFJ.html INFJs have uncanny insight into people and situations. They get "feelings" about things and intuitively understand them. As an extreme example, some INFJs...

Hey INFJs, I have an INFJ male friend and was wondering if there is any way to tell if he is interested in me romantically or not? Lately, he's been initiating the two of us hanging out, (for the past month or two its been once or twice a week typically, but he's not the kind of guy that has...

Have you met someone who fits this description? Where did you meet? How quickly did you recognize your match in this person? Are you still together or did you split up?

Does anyone else make conflict worse? I can't accept with people are upset with me or think I'm wrong, I will fight them tooth and nail to try to convince them that they are wrong. It doesn't matter if I agree with what I'm saying or not. I just refuse to accept that they think negatively of...

Hello, There were a few forums on this back in 2010, but nothing current. I am working on becoming aware of my patterns so I can change them. It's not easy. However, I feel that this forum could be helpful. I have stumbled on a few deeply psychological posts and they've helped me sort...

Hello all, I would like some clarification of my preferred type. I have thought of myself as an INFJ for months based on cognitive functions. Recently I have been wondering if I am actually INFP after paying for a test created by Dr. Drenth. It came out at a slight preference (53%) INFP. I...

Hello, friends. I'm very close friends with a guy who is an INFJ. We've been friends for a few years but I recently started to develop feelings for him. The trouble is, I can't figure out how he feels about me. I've thought about asking, but I don't want to make our friendship awkward. He acts...