Tin Man
"a respectable amount of screaming"
- MBTI
- INTJ
- Enneagram
- N
Accept other people's way of thinking, without expecting that they should have to adopt one's own. Also the assumption that others are ignorant closes oneself off the possibility of learning anything - close-mindedness can either come about because one thinks one is all-knowing without qualification, or because one thinks others are completely ignorant without qualification.
Ultimately, to believe, or not believe is a matter of choice, not of knowledge. Some people have a simple faith which does not engage with scientific fact, or a more developed faith. Likewise some people choose not to believe with only a vague tenuous grasp of scientific facts and with a vague tenuous knowledge of religion. This is not necessarily indicative of the validity of their choice, which may be operating on a more personal level, which is why characterising other's choices about atheism/theism as ignorant can only be made in ignorance of the other person. And the personal experience of a person - objective, or subjective is not without value.
I don't expect people to adopt my way of thinking, I would find people very boring if they just agreed with me. However, if someone won't even listen to another's argument, let alone respect it then I don't see what you can learn from them. If someone goes through all their life with eyes shut, I question how much wisdom they have to benefit from.
What I posted wasn't meant to be an attack on Christians. There are many atheists who are close minded just as there are many believers who are open to other ways of thinking.
Reading the OP again, I think I got into the wrong direction, by taking the stance that atheism as a worldview is depressing. I shoud've drive in another direction. Geh, it happens, especialy when I don't even know from where to begin...
[MENTION=5667]Jacobi[/MENTION]
You should say something, instead of being melancholic about your 'great life experiences".
I would suggest to you that being closed-minded does nothing to do with what is the truth. So a closed-minded person is not necessarely false... You are a INTJ, I think you can grasp this difference.
[MENTION=6917]sprinkles[/MENTION]
Please don't "explain" what I meant to say, if you don't have the willingness to quote me.
No.
What's the point? It's unlikely I would change your mind. If someone like [MENTION=5045]Skarekrow[/MENTION], one of the most open minded people I know, someone who really tried to understand and accept your viewpoint was unable to open your mind even slightly, what chance do I have?
You are correct on one point, however. There's little point in complaining about the way things are; it serves nobody.