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yea, i'm good for moral support but not anything else... my 2nd ex would tell me if something someone did had bothered her... i was all like, "ok... what do you want me to do about it?"
i think over time, i had realized that i can't do anything about anyone's problems (unless its me, of course), and so i feel helpless
even Coke would tell you that i cannot just listen to her on the phone as she's coughing... i immediately go, "are you ok?"
i try not to be too cold, but like when someone is crying on the other side of the phone, i immediately feel helpless, angry, and agonizing restraint from just hanging up the phone.... i haven't yet though, so i'm good so far there...
as i have gotten older, it had become easier for me to switch from feeling to nothing though, and that helps me rid the helpless feeling... and in turn, help out the person that is troubled... thereby, allowing me to not be as cold or unfeeling...
i think over time, i had realized that i can't do anything about anyone's problems (unless its me, of course), and so i feel helpless
even Coke would tell you that i cannot just listen to her on the phone as she's coughing... i immediately go, "are you ok?"
i try not to be too cold, but like when someone is crying on the other side of the phone, i immediately feel helpless, angry, and agonizing restraint from just hanging up the phone.... i haven't yet though, so i'm good so far there...
as i have gotten older, it had become easier for me to switch from feeling to nothing though, and that helps me rid the helpless feeling... and in turn, help out the person that is troubled... thereby, allowing me to not be as cold or unfeeling...