Nixie
Resurrected
- MBTI
- ENTP
I am sure it exists somewhere (no links please) but I am curious about whether you can ask for help or not? Can you accept help when it is offered? Why or why not?
I find that if I can rarely accept help from someone who isn't within the boundaries of my inner circle. I rarely ask for help either. I can sometimes ask for help if I really need it--like getting the stupid clip thing hooked back onto my headlight because I don't have the strength in my fingers to do it--dudes are great about helping a female when it comes to car crap! I am so harsh about myself and seeing it as weak to need others although I rationally know it isn't possible to live in this world alone. I have found this to be something that I have to work on. It limits my ability to allow others close because I am not truthful about my needs.
I find that if I can rarely accept help from someone who isn't within the boundaries of my inner circle. I rarely ask for help either. I can sometimes ask for help if I really need it--like getting the stupid clip thing hooked back onto my headlight because I don't have the strength in my fingers to do it--dudes are great about helping a female when it comes to car crap! I am so harsh about myself and seeing it as weak to need others although I rationally know it isn't possible to live in this world alone. I have found this to be something that I have to work on. It limits my ability to allow others close because I am not truthful about my needs.