I understand. Fat is usually not attractive to people. :/ I guess when you spend your life big, you learn to see past it? Idk. I never liked the stereotypical looking "hot" guy. I'm weird though. You're smart to get healthier, @Pin is right. As usual.
I think it is because of the way we understand. Because we understand so many things so deeply... its just natural to us. Idk.. I can't really explain it either. I'm sure someone else could. I never was really good at explaining things.
LMFAOOOOOHa, I certainly know that. I even checked last night! Yup, little Jimmy is still there
I don't know. I just think I want to marry an INFJ, simply for the banter, ya know?
Nothing warms my heart quite like strategic consumerism.
Ha!
Well just remember that all INFJs are not created equal! Lol... and also, yeah I got it... haha I love that you had the courage to say that in public for a laugh! You're definitely not insecure lolol. Its so great though! I could never just walk up to some guy (maybe I could a girl, if I was really into her, females are different... lol) and ask him out. Great for you! And Idk about other INFJs, but this group here is ALL about some banter. It is one of my favorite things about this site. We talk shit all day long here and laugh our asses off. It's so great lol.
All about that power and respect. Exactly how I imagined it. Why the heck are you on a site for INFJs, though?Nothing warms my heart quite like strategic consumerism.
Ha!
Care to explain?
She's just so positive and affirming. She's so sweet and if I ever have a problem emotionally, I know I can count on her to understand and help me through it. Ugh, it's crazy.
Very, very true!!!!!!! All of it!Hello! You can call me Tooth and I'm fairly new in this community. I register as an INFJ but I regularly retake the MBTI and have been typed as ENFJ and INTJ. I am very close to a lot of NT types. They are in fact the closest to me in my life so it may not be surprising how so much of the NT habits have rubbed off on me somewhat. All in all, I register more as an INFJ.
Regarding your post, I am with @JennyDaniella in saying that she is not in love with you. An INFJ in love tends to be obsessive. We know everything about you and likewise, we become transparent to you. While I understand what @sassafras is saying because I too have those moments, I would still remain transparent to you. If you are important to me but am unsure about how I feel or if there is a circumstance that is making me think twice about every thing but still see you romantically, I still wouldn't do anything that would make you doubt me. I will secure your trust to every extent. If she always makes sure to include you in her life in any way despite the distance and the time apart, you might do best to hold tight. Wait it out and see.
If anything, I would say to put a brake on your feelings and wait until when you are physically together which is in two months. Long distance courtship is hard regardless of mbti so bonding when you are next to each other would be more realistic and you might get a better gauge by then. For all you know, you may not like her as much when you are with her in person. Thus, I think she is right to want to take things slow. She may not necessarily be fucking someone else (in Pin's words) but she is not that into you, yet, and perhaps for good reasons too. I do however agree that the whole no jealousy with the friend is a little odd. I wouldn't even introduce you to my friend yet if I wanted to be sure about you but that's me and I don't know much about her culture and personal preferences. Note that while I wouldn't introduce you to my friend, you would still now how important she is to me if I see you as very important to me too.
All in all, it's right to NOT wear your heart on your sleeve at this point so that is just reiterating what everybody else has already said.
No, not entirely true Pin. While some girls are like this, an intellectually and emotionally mature man still ranks more important to some of us.
Yes, this is true and accurate but like I said above, we would still go out of our way to make you feel secure.
Man... Fuck if I know.
Hello! You can call me Tooth and I'm fairly new in this community. I register as an INFJ but I regularly retake the MBTI and have been typed as ENFJ and INTJ. I am very close to a lot of NT types. They are in fact the closest to me in my life so it may not be surprising how so much of the NT habits have rubbed off on me somewhat. All in all, I register more as an INFJ.
Regarding your post, I am with @JennyDaniella in saying that she is not in love with you. An INFJ in love tends to be obsessive. We know everything about you and likewise, we become transparent to you. While I understand what @sassafras is saying because I too have those moments, I would still remain transparent to you. If you are important to me but am unsure about how I feel or if there is a circumstance that is making me think twice about every thing but still see you romantically, I still wouldn't do anything that would make you doubt me. I will secure your trust to every extent. If she always makes sure to include you in her life in any way despite the distance and the time apart, you might do best to hold tight. Wait it out and see.
If anything, I would say to put a brake on your feelings and wait until when you are physically together which is in two months. Long distance courtship is hard regardless of mbti so bonding when you are next to each other would be more realistic and you might get a better gauge by then. For all you know, you may not like her as much when you are with her in person. Thus, I think she is right to want to take things slow. She may not necessarily be fucking someone else (in Pin's words) but she is not that into you, yet, and perhaps for good reasons too. I do however agree that the whole no jealousy with the friend is a little odd. I wouldn't even introduce you to my friend yet if I wanted to be sure about you but that's me and I don't know much about her culture and personal preferences. Note that while I wouldn't introduce you to my friend, you would still now how important she is to me if I see you as very important to me too.
All in all, it's right to NOT wear your heart on your sleeve at this point so that is just reiterating what everybody else has already said.
No, not entirely true Pin. While some girls are like this, an intellectually and emotionally mature man still ranks more important to some of us.
Yes, this is true and accurate but like I said above, we would still go out of our way to make you feel secure.
I fixed it.Just letting you know. Your replies are located within her quoted reply.
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Just letting you know. Your replies are located within her quoted reply.
