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there is neither objective nor subjective, there's only more or less objective and more or less subjective
This makes my head spin. Objectivity is in subjectivity.:crazybounce:
Thankfully your statement doesn't make me confused because I remember that you're an aspect of me, a projection on the screen. But is this text real? Do I still exist as this message if I turn off the computer and think about it really hard?Solipsistic heads are known to be constantly spinning.
I see so many forums and topics revoling around this thing and it's often hyped up, but isn't it rather simple?
Looking from biological perspective, we as humans usually tend to be attracted to those that essentially are of higher value, whatever that subjectively means.
But generally...
If you're a girl, then looks, status and power play the primary role.
If you're a man, then looks is king, all else are additional things.
It sounds mean and not right, but that's how it is.
Agree or Disagree?
Preach.Disagree
First off, why choose the term "girl" in your description for females? You used "man" in the statement about males; "woman" would be opposite equivalent and would imply that both are mature adults. Perhaps an unconscious bias? It is common to hear women referred to as girls. Either way, the statements are off balance.
Second, Nothing is that simple, there is no direct cause and effect when it comes to attraction, or anything else really. It is part of a larger system, in which the things you list are nodes, or parts of the system, but not the system itself. For each person this system evolves and is influenced by both their personal background, life experiences, and personal preferences, as well as shared circumstances, like society and generation. The system would have to include lust, and the human drive to procreate to continue the species, but would not end there. Women may be more likely than men to favor the idea of security, but that would not disclude men from possibly desiring this as well, or even seeing it as a decisive quality in a mate. I think attraction is part of a more complex system that includes powerful basic human drives.
When your best sucks.
I wouldn't call a woman a bitch for not liking me, I would call her decision incorrect. I'm awesome!Cuz women are bitches if they aren't into you. No matter how wonderful and entitled you think you are.
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I wouldn't call a woman a bitch for not liking me, I would call her decision incorrect. I'm awesome!
In all seriousness, most people are lazy fucks who expect something (love, money, positive regard) for nothing. That's the problem.
You're right.You probably are awesome but it wouldn't make her choice incorrect.
Not dating someone you aren't attracted to or that you don't want to date for whatever reason doesn't make someone wrong or ignorant or shallow (which is often what people are accused of for rejecting someone.) You can't force chemistry.
The whiny good guy (in the comic) is just an issue. It would be nice if people would just respect the choices of other people instead of villifying women for not doing what they want them to do.
Yeah we got it. You're an incel.
Unfortunately, we've not all got those handsome jock genes. That's why overcompensation exists.
If I'm to be serious, good looks for a guy will give you an edge only initially. Don't give into the belief that it's about looks.Unfortunately, we've not all got those handsome jock genes.