It's not just the kids I worry about. Adults do far more damage than the "teasing" snot-nosed brats ever could. (And you can't assume that just because the couple is gay that the child is going to have unconditional love.)
That doesn't mean a homosexual couple shouldn't adopt...but it would be ridiculous to assume it wouldn't be difficult for the child.
I'm only black, lol. There was a time when that was a huge issue in America. Trust me, if I'm still going through ish in 2009 with THAT sort of thing I can only IMAGINE what it would be like for an adopted kid whose parents are gay! I mean, damn. That's the new hottest thing to hate on nowadays! More disgusting than all the Mexicans crossing over illegally...more obscene than interracial couples...and even more offensive than middle easterners in American airports! Americans pair gay marriage on the same level as abortion. It's THAT big a deal here. Turn on a radio station and what are they bitching about? Gay marriage, blah blah blah! Proposition 8, blah, blah, blah! Marriage is only between a man and a woman, blah, blah, blah! Let's regurgitate bible verses together, blah, blah, blah! People get really fired up. There are going to be some evil adults out there (teachers/principals/neighbors/etc.) that are going to mess with that child, simply because that child has gay parents. Forget about the stupid kids. The adults are going to be the problem.
Again, this doesn't mean that just because it's difficult, people shouldn't adopt. If the parents are aware of the issues that will face that child, and will be ready to address those unique issues responsibly, I say GO FOR IT! Again, if parents are aware of the odds that are going to be against their relationship and their child, they should happily be parents! I don't have a problem with the homosexual couple...I have a problem with the crazy psychos out there who would target the child to vent their hatred on homosexuals.
I would have the same opinion about the subject if it was about interracial couples trying to adopt in the 30s, 40s, 50s, 60s. And hell, I'm in an interracial relationship! I would be wary about an interracial couple trying to adopt in that time period just because of all the crazy people out there.
Now, with that said...does that mean that homosexual adoptions are going to be as violent as all the other "unwanted" groups in America's history? I don't know. But I know this: people are nuts, and although they might not hang up homosexuals in trees in crazy lynching mobs, their children are vulnerable targets. Am I exaggerating the issue? You can think so if you want. Think whatever you like, you're entitled to it. I can only speak from my personal experiences. Some of my teachers tortured me simply because I was black...and I'm talking about in the 2000s...not the 40s! There will be those same asshats torturing these adopted kids. I guarantee it. And probably worse than what went on with me because right now hating on homosexuals is now the new American past time. *rolls eyes*
I'm for gay rights and homosexual couples. Their love is one that is so misunderstood. I feel a kinship to the struggle that they are going through. Being seen as "unwanted" is a challenging thing. But times will change, I'm sure of that. Full faith and credit clause in the constitution, lol. Eventually homosexual marriages will be legal in the US. After that, it will only be a matter of time when these psychos calm down about adoptions. And just MAYBE after that, Americans will also calm down about abortions. And maybe maybe maybe Americans will run out of things to hate. Although I doubt it, lol.