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Well the emphasis lies on the fact that no father was present, yes single parent but again NO Male.
This is why the word "fatherless" is a loaded term. The actual studies on same sex homes have indicated that there is no difference between them and heterosexual homes. That means that the statistics mayflow presented are not indicative of not having a father but only of being raised in a single parent home. If there were not studies of same sex homes, then she could make the argument that the home being "fatherless" is an issue, but since there are, and they have demonstrated that that variable doesn't have a significant impact, she can't make that emphasis.
Of course they may be as well adjusted as heterosexual homes, again, I am not questioning homosexuals ability to raise a child. Mayflows statistics represent information on children who were raised by a Mother (thus, no father, no male). Therefore it is to see that the lack of presence of a male will have an effect on the child. The children may be well adjusted but sexlinked - No. A child raised with 2 females will lack male attributes and behaviour usually arising from the father.
A single mother has infinitely more problems to deal with than a homosexual couple does. A single income, having to deal with all the parenting herself, dealing with the stigma of being a single parents, etc. Of all those variables, you are pulling out the variable, "no male figure being present" as what causes poor adjustment in her children. That is despite the fact that there is 20 years of evidence that shows that children from lesbian homes are just well adjusted as heterosexual homes. There is no evidence to support the assertion that the variable of "no male figure" plays any role in the adjustment of a child.
What error did I make?!?! I have not been ignorant, I have merely been trying to discuss the subject. Taken peoples input and reasoned around it. I have not drawn absolute conclusions, subsiding stubbernly, which an ignorant person would have...?
You made the error of assuming that single parent homes are exactly the same as two parent homosexual homes. In order to use mayflow's statistics, that is pretty much the assumption you would have to make.