I hate introverts

MoniqueS said:
I'm an introvert and I don't think negatively of extroverts nor would I make a list of all the negative things about them. I guess this is coming from a personal experience you are having, but I don't think its really fair to generalize in such a negative way. Cause I never said I was any of those things.
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Majesty is a just a terrorist, that's all. This is what she does when she's not wiring car bombs.
 
Majesty said:
omg u were green and now ur yellow!!!
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see look at her sharp eyes. I bet an introvert wouldn't have noticed that.



Also: Introverts get fucking pissed off whenever anyone enters your space. The F? IT AINT EVEN YOUR SPACE. Then they get all whiny about how they need their alone time. THEN they turn around and complain about how extraverts always have to be with people. Ok, so if you always need your alone time, then why can't we always be with people?

Well, that's for any E. I myself like to do most things by myself, people slow me down.
 
Majesty said:
reasons:

- You are not unique
- You don't have a "special condition"
- You're too slow-paced
- You are not better than extroverts
- You're not deeper/more intelligent/more mature than extroverts
- You're not more misunderstood than anyone else cause you're an introvert
- You prefer to read your crappy books rather than going to my parties </3 How do you think that makes me feel? Rejected! </3 Unloved! </3 (I'm still learning emotional manipulation. I know I'm not very good yet)
- You suck at random small talk
- You're not action-oriented enough
- You're living in your own world
- You whine about how extroverts whine about introverts. What?


This is not a troll thread. I don't troll on tuesdays.
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Do you assume that all introverts think this?

It seems only fair that I follow this up with something like this:

Extroverts

- You are not the only "normal" type of person out there.
- You are not a friendly/people person/team player just because you are an extrovert.
- You should learn the value of thinking before you act.
- You are not better than introverts.
- You should read more instead of going to crappy parties.
- You suck at "meaningful" conversations.
- You are not thoughtful enough. You place too much emphasis on breadth and action.
- You're living in your own world, but you think it's more real than introverts, because your focus is on "tangible" materalism and other frivolous things.
- You whine about how introverts whine about extroverts. Why?

(*Note- Everything that I wrote is stereotypical nonsense, but it follows well with the original post. It also mixes the stereotypes of extroverts and sensors, just as the original mixed introverts with intuitives...which happens often.)
 
Like frankly, I think that extraverts have more of an ability to be introverted, than introverts have an ability to be extraverted. Also like, meaningful conversations have nothing to do with I/E, but lets face it, more I's bitch about their E friends being unable to hold deep conversations.

Now I for one, don't wish to have deep conversations, because I prefer to mull about that stuff by myself. To be stereotypical, I may think about the "meaning of the universe" *lets consider that as deep as we can go* for hours on end during the monring and day, while i go running etc. However, once I get around people, I don't feel comfortable talking about that kind of stuff, I'd rather be goofy.

and i hate parties.
 
Majesty said:
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saru said:
Like frankly, I think that extraverts have more of an ability to be introverted, than introverts have an ability to be extraverted. Also like, meaningful conversations have nothing to do with I/E, but lets face it, more I's bitch about their E friends being unable to hold deep conversations.
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I think introverts with an auxilary Fe have the potential to not come across as socially awkard. I've been on both sides of the fence on that. I think as an Ni-dominate, I can get lost in my head, and if I'm caught spacing out then that makes me look strange to most people. However, I have also been charismatic and the life of the party at other times. I just can't seem to stay in that mode.

I have the ability to appear extroverted. If I had Fi, however, I might worry more about thinking that by following social customs that I'm "not being true to myself".

saru said:
Now I for one, don't wish to have deep conversations, because I prefer to mull about that stuff by myself. To be stereotypical, I may think about the "meaning of the universe" *lets consider that as deep as we can go* for hours on end during the monring and day, while i go running etc. However, once I get around people, I don't feel comfortable talking about that kind of stuff, I'd rather be goofy.

and i hate parties.
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I only talk about that kind of stuff on the internet. Nobody I know really wants to talk about "nerdy things". Also, I don't want to come across as pretentious.

I can be goofy also. :nod: :m200:
 
I will admit though, one thing I do do though that probably bugs introverts, is that once I have a task I don't want to do, and friends, i talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk talk. Sometimes I'm not even talking about anthing one thing, I might just start muttering shit. Anything to distract me from this task.

I do however respect every introvert's space. There was a case of an intro I thought was an extro, but once I realized they were intro i left them alone a lot more.
 
MikeA said:
Haha, hahahaha. You're funny.
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I admit it's somewhat of a ludicrous idea, but that's what Myers-Briggs herself intentioned the MBTI test to promote.
 
What I get from this is that xntp's don't mix with infjs. Honestly. Of course E's and I's don't understand each other. On the topic of being more thoughtful, you betcha. I's think a hell of a lot more about deeper shit than E's because we aren't concentrating on people all the time. we concentrate more on ideas and understanding. Not to say that E's don't think about things at deeper levels but in all honesty, I can't share 99.9% of my daily thoughts or opinions with other people because most of them are extroverted and they probably haven't thought about things I think about before. Worse, they'll think they're right even if I obviously know more about the subject at hand just from considering different sides.

We may seem too quite for many super extroverts but coming from experience, you really don't need to share everything that pops into your head as if it's the most important thing ever handed down by the grace of god. It really isn't that important that your second cousin got a tooth pulled three and a half years ago. And vice versa, you pry don't care that there are 11 dimensions or that gravity isn't actually understood.

As for the other things on the list...

Of course we suck at small talk, because it's small and unimportant, for the most part. Sure, we can do it but it's literally the same conversation every time...

Oh hey!
Hey, how's it going?
Good! You? How's school?
Oh, it's going fine. I'm studying how to film porn.
Well, that sounds interesting.
K bye.
K bye.

Urgh. Just urgh.

As far as being action oriented...

1. Fuck that
2. You're on a forum full of people who lead with an introverted perceiving function. Not only that, it's intuitive which means we just want to think about stuff and come to a decision when it happens. I realize that Ni is a convergent thinking function but that doesn't mean it takes a second. It can take a while and we won't stop until we do come to a conclusion. It's not about taking action, it's about understanding.
 
please don't mix the ENXX with the ESXX. WAY DIFFERENT.
 
I was disappointed to discover that Majesty is a woman, because, umm, I hate women
 
saru said:
Then they get all whiny about how they need their alone time.
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To be fair, this doesn't have a lot to do with introversion. If you are annoying someone, their tolerance for being around you for longer periods of time will diminish. I know introverts who "need their alone time" regardless of who they are with and whether they are irritated or not, which I can see can be annoying for people to accept.

However, if I'm with someone I enjoy spending time with and we don't get annoyed with each other, then there is no reason why I would have to spend "time away" from them. I only need to get away if the person is draining or annoying but apart from that I don't need to be in a room all by myself to recharge, at all. It's much more about who the company is then anything, which you could say about extroverts too.

It's like, my girlfriend moved to England almost a year ago and we've only been apart for a whole day, two times. We really don't feel it's necessary to "have space" by being geographically distanced from each other. I've never understood that.
 
saru said:
please don't mix the ENXX with the ESXX. WAY DIFFERENT.
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Not at all. ExxJ and ExxP are very different, but within those they can be quite similar.
 
saru said:
please don't mix the ENXX with the ESXX. WAY DIFFERENT.
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Or are they? Cognition and behaviour individually, perhaps. Behaviour in groups and from a distance notsomuch!

:m200:
 
I'm happy for extroverts to be extroverted and enjoy their extroversion. That's fine.

But yeah I do need my space and a bit of p and q and I don't mind telling you so. That doesn't mean I want to sit in a corner all the time and not associate with anyone.

The main difference between introverts and extroverts is where the energy comes from. Extroverts are energised after a party. Introverts enjoy the party then go home to recharge. That's all and that's enough. Peace.
 
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