Okay, well I guess I will elaborate... if you are so concerned about your ability to support a woman financially, it is clear you are influenced by gender roles -- and there is nothing in the world wrong with that either... but you also want a more idealistic type of love too, naturally (who wouldn't).
I think if you find a woman who is clearly able to work and get an education and wants to be an equal partner with you rather than almost an employee-employer relationship, then you have gone a long way towards finding someone who will love you always rather than see you as the sperm-donor/meal ticket you seem to fear you may be. If you marry someone who is perhaps not quite emotionally mature enough to feel and be independent and self-sufficient, it is less likely you will find what you are looking for.
(????) That's what I think, anyway.
Oh, yeah, and breast implants? 9 times out of 10, sure sign of a meal-ticket-seeker because those things are designed to generate income. And not just for plastic surgeons. Not always, of course, but it is a good rule of thumb.
I think if you find a woman who is clearly able to work and get an education and wants to be an equal partner with you rather than almost an employee-employer relationship, then you have gone a long way towards finding someone who will love you always rather than see you as the sperm-donor/meal ticket you seem to fear you may be. If you marry someone who is perhaps not quite emotionally mature enough to feel and be independent and self-sufficient, it is less likely you will find what you are looking for.
(????) That's what I think, anyway.
Oh, yeah, and breast implants? 9 times out of 10, sure sign of a meal-ticket-seeker because those things are designed to generate income. And not just for plastic surgeons. Not always, of course, but it is a good rule of thumb.