muir
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@muir Who birthed, fed and raised the men you claim built the roof over my head, grew the food in my fridge (ignoring the fact that it is mostly women who have grown the food and fetched the water)
Men have been the farmers for the last 10,000 years since agriculture began
But you have just proven my point: MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT
This is why feminism is outdated because the marxist feminist idea that all differences are entirely cultural and exist only in your head is patently false...men and women are biologically different
and designed and built the computer? Who traditionally and still predominately will take care of these men if they become invalid or when they become old and sick? What would you prefer to do? Build something or change the dirty diaper of an elderly person?
I have built things AND i have changed the diapers of elderly people
Do you know who got called when things got out of hand in the wards? Me and the other men
Which is more worthy or valuable work? I would propose that both are valuable and important work and that one shouldn't be valued over the other. The work that men have traditionally done have always and still is more glorified and deemed as 'real' work than the work that women have traditionally done.
Thats nonsense
It is women who are trying to put men down and i am saying that don't forget who it is who provides the essentials of life
No food and no shelter and there will be no birth
That is wrong. I can tell you that I have spent years care-giving in an unpaid capacity and that is not recognized in society. My ex who has worked very hard and earned lots of money for it is recognized with value and respect because he has a distinguished career and expertise which is recognized. Does that mean that all the hard work and dedication that I have done over the years was less meaningful or that I have less expertise because I wasn't getting paid for it? My ex worked long hours but mine were even longer and I had much less leisure time than he did but my hard work goes unrecognised because it wasn't paid and because it is still predominantly 'women's work'.
It's not just 'womens work' that isn't paid well....there are millions of men across the world doing all sorts of essential work and getting paid jack shit for it
That is not a man v's women issue...that is an issue about how our society allocates resources so leave gender out of it
Ask yourself what are women doing now that they are going into the workplace? They are being every bit as aggressive and corporate as men...they're apeing men, so don't try and say men are to blame for how things are...women are complicit in the system too
I think we should celebrate the differences while allowing for variations on those differences without fear of reprisals. Equality is not and has never been claimed to be about everybody being exactly the same but simply having the same rights:
Wrong that is not what feminism is about
Feminism is about saying that men and women are the same. They want us to believe that all differences are cultural because it then gives them the philosophical justification for the social engineering that they are doing
Your glorification of heterosexual men as somehow being superior to the rest of us while at the same proclaiming that they are the 'real' victims of the system is problematic.
Pointing out what they are worth is not 'glorifying' them its reminding you to remember that they have worth
I did not say they are the 'real' victims of the system i pointed out to you that women are not the sole victims and that men have been suffering horribly for thousands of years...all i'm asking is that you recognise it and stop treating them like the enemy
I think you are falling into the same trap that you constantly warn us about. The idea that paid 'men's work' is of more value than the work done by the caregivers in society seems to me to be contrary to some of the ideas you espouse.
Most women don;t work in 'care giving' don't kid yourself
We live in a 'service' economy...do you know what that means? It means we don't produce anything anymore we just create artifical wealth by printing money and borrowing money until one day it all blows up in our faces
Yes i do make a distinction between manufacturing jobs and service jobs
I have done care work and i see that as vital work and many men are involved in that
My stance has been and will always be that every human being has a right to be themselves and be protected from discrimination or mistreatment. Fighting for certain segments of society are just tools to help us reach that goal. I don't care which segment you chose to fight for it should not include anything that glorifies one group over another or is antagonistic towards the idea that other groups have the right to fight for what they need for themselves.
feminism is demonising men
It portrays them as the sole oppressors of women and says they are to blame for everything whilst portraying women as the sole victims....that's horseshit
I may call myself a feminist but that is just because females are the group of people that I predominantly choose to fight for but it is all wrapped up in the fight for everybody to have the same rights and any other group, including men, who realize that they need to put effort and energy into fighting for their right to be treated fairly and equally will have my support to do so, as long as it does not include demeaning another group. I certainly extend that to any feminist group that includes misandry, which in my opinion has no place in feminism and is actually anti-feminist.
Thats why you make such a good dupe