1whitehorse1
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- MBTI
- INFJ
I just realised my neighbour is also an INTP. I thought he was an ExxP but now I realise he's a talkative INTP. He's married to an ENFJ (most likely). He's also in IT. She's a language teacher. He definitely knows how to keep it real and provides good perspective on problems, he tries not to get swept away by emotion, generally down to earth. He scoffs at people who make a big deal about things or act petty. I think INTPs feel safe confiding in INFJs because we are very non-judgemental when speaking with them and give them Fe feedback on their logical conclusions. I wouldn't feel comfortable going into great personal detail about personal stuff, but we do make good friends because we respect the others' 'strengths' and opposite insights in conversation. I guess him being married to an ENFJ means his Fi is highly developped; I'd say that yes, this is the case. However, he does get somewhat irritated when his wife gets swept away by her emotions. But they are mature and can definitely work out these things. They make a good pair.