So basically, this is a catchall for you to excuse yourself for not speaking clearly. You seem like one of the only members here who ever has to make statements like this.
It smells like a fish, looks like a fish, acts like a fish, but you call it a cat, and assert that it just has to be? ok then.
You might not like the lack of clarity, but you have to accept
that when you talk to an INFJ you're probably not going to get
things laid out in precise terms for you. That's just not how we
communicate most of the time. We
can do it (tertiary Ti, after
all) but since Ni is so hard to put into words directly, we have
to either use vague terms and hope that you get it, express
things poetically rather than directly, or put out a preliminary
statement of what our Ni is saying which is precise, but not all
that accurate, and hence going to be changed later. As a result
of this and other things, it is ridiculous to assume that because
an INFJ said something that they actually believe it, and then
criticise them for contradicting themselves. All this proves is
that you don't understand their thought processes.
If you don't get it, you don't get it.