pogo_<3
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Wow, you really twisted that, didn't you? Good job. And that was a nice little jab at my husband. I wonder, would you have the balls to say that to my face? Anonymity on the internet is lovely, isn't it?
Uh no, I did not say it's the "only thing" we are good at. I said it's ONE THING we're really good at. I'm sorry you read it wrong (or how you wanted to read it so you could form some kind of baseless argument against me). We are animals, we have instincts, and on a purely instinctual level, we like POWER. Power makes you the 'most likely species to survive.' I realize that you are religious and may not agree that we are indeed animals, but we are. And I am a firm believer in the fact that fighting has been and always will be inherent human nature. It's certainly not pleasant, but plenty of things we deal with as human beings are not pleasant. I'm saying this because while there will always be people opposed to war, wars will continue to happen. I didn't say I like it. Do you think I'm happy my husband is gone? Do you think I'm happy that something could happen to him? Do you think he's running around over there going "I can't wait to kill me some Iraqis"? I mean, I feel sorry for anyone who allows themselves to be spoonfed their opinions by the media. Really.
My husband is a freedom loving INTP. He cannot stand being in the military. He came from a poor family. He didn't join the military to kill. He specifically joined to be a photographer because he couldn't afford art school and therefore chose the only artistic field in the military. He joined at the urging of his mother, because he didn't want to be a financial burden by living with his parents anymore. Many of you have an outdated, skewed view of military personnel. You need to keep your political views focused on the politicians and their policies, NOT the people who are in the military. I'm not saying there aren't racists and idiots in the military, because there are (and to me and many people I know they are an embarrassment to any branch of service, and are not a true representation of the military as a whole). There are plenty of idiots and racists outside of the military as well. There are very few people in the military who fancy the idea of deploying and killing anyone (I have personally met NONE, and I have been around the military since BIRTH). I mean, you are disillusioned if you believe everyone is going over there eager to kill anyone. In fact, PTSD is very real. VERY real. Do you even realize why people are suffering from PTSD? If they were so enjoying themselves over there, do you think they'd be suffering like that?
Honestly, much of what I'm reading here sickens me. I really have no problem saying that.
You're not trying to stir trouble? Well sorry, but you did.
"I wonder, would you have the balls to say that to my face? Anonymity on the internet is lovely, isn't it? " <-----Your exact words
Would I have the balls to do something that I, as an ENFP, is not a question that I am frequently asked. Yes. I would have the balls. I am by no means shy when it comes to my opinions. ANd no, I don't think anonymity on the internet is "lovely".Have you seen the statistics of child rape and molestation because of the "lovely" anonymity? If you have children, I'm sure just one episode of Dateline's "How To Catch A Predator" would permanently sway your decision. I don't tend to use said anonymity to my advantage either, I'm afraid. I am not the type of person who will let someone else, regardless of age, size, occupation, history, or anthing else, intimidate me away from proving a point that whole-heartedly believe in.
I noticed that you cut off my quote rather conveniently for your argument. THIS is what was meant to be read:
"I read earlier in the argument that you had said that war was inevitable, and the only thing we were good at. While that may be the case of your husband, I can surely tell you right now that I personally am no good at war, but I sure like to write and read. I consider myself to be a remotely religious person, and I would like to believe that God didn't put us on this Earth to be good at war. If that was the case, why aren't swords and guns developed with the fetus?"
THAT is my point. It has nothing to do with the possible lack of competance your husband may or may not have achieved. Do I know your husband? No. Therefore I am unable to judge him. I actually applaude him for making the decision to go into a feild of work that he didn't want to in the first place, simply for the good of his family.
And back to the original debate of the draft, it seems to me that the government is making joining the military necessary for lower class families to survive. It's becoming the only option to support their families and dreams as well apparently. If secretsmile's husband wants to be a photographer, and is good at it, then why should he, and the millions of other photographers have to spend their time trying not to die so we can "see what war looks like."? They should be able to stay in their homes, and take pictures of what war SHOULD look like--> a blank wall.
Yet again, I have to disagree with your "fact" saying that war is inevitable, and will always be. A fact is a proven statement; where is your proof?
When you build that time machine and travel to the future to get said proof, will you bring back a newspaper for me?