VH
Variable Hybrid
- MBTI
- NFJedi
I can mimic or imitate just about anyone I meet, but this is a conscious effort. I also have a large repertoire of accents and characters I can do improvisationally. Although my 'southern' accent is mild because I chose not to sound like I'm from down here, almost any accent I can do will fool a native speaker. For instance, I've fooled both English and Australian people that I was one of them, and even fooled a girl from Boston that I was too. They were all really freaked out to find out that I wasn't, and insisted I was pulling their leg when I told them I was faking the accent until my friends had to verify.
However, rapport is something that I do subconsciously, and I've been told by my incredibly perceptive ISTP friend that it is something I do reflexively in a way other than described above. Apparently I can read people well enough to figure out what tone of voice, body language, and vibe will affect them and provide it, whether or not it is an imitation of their own. I'm not aware of doing it, so much as I'm aware of a desire to connect with someone. My buddy says I'm like a social chameleon, except that instead of imitating my surroundings, I can turn into the color most likely to attract the bugs I'm trying to catch. Creepy analogy, but kinda accurate, as I remember learning to develop this ability as a kid because I got tired of not having any friends. We moved around alot when I was younger - went to 14 schools before I graduated - and I remember meeting someone who could do this, and decided within myself that I would be able to do it to.
However, rapport is something that I do subconsciously, and I've been told by my incredibly perceptive ISTP friend that it is something I do reflexively in a way other than described above. Apparently I can read people well enough to figure out what tone of voice, body language, and vibe will affect them and provide it, whether or not it is an imitation of their own. I'm not aware of doing it, so much as I'm aware of a desire to connect with someone. My buddy says I'm like a social chameleon, except that instead of imitating my surroundings, I can turn into the color most likely to attract the bugs I'm trying to catch. Creepy analogy, but kinda accurate, as I remember learning to develop this ability as a kid because I got tired of not having any friends. We moved around alot when I was younger - went to 14 schools before I graduated - and I remember meeting someone who could do this, and decided within myself that I would be able to do it to.