ClevelandINTP
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hmmm.... well today I went a little crazy. I deleted her from Facebook, deleted her from Discord and deleted and blocked her from Kik. lmao
I was tired to see her name always online on my stuff. Don't know how she'll react to this. and for her birthday I don't have the money to drive to her house even if I wanted to.. the most I could do is send her a hand written letter, then again.. Idk what's going to happen by that time.
Hang in there. Best to act like nothing is wrong. She will notice this, and you are actually giving her power by acting like that. Acting in anger is weak; forgiving is strong; ignoring is intelligent. You can be angry, but just don't show it to her.
Part of the birthday being a good thing is the timing. This gives you 3 weeks to detox and get the mind positive again.
I got a good feeling on this. Same situation I had with my last ex (also an INFJ.) Her birthday was three weeks after our last contact, and sure enough I ended up with her that whole week.
Take care of you and get rid of all the negative energy you can. Purge all your anger on paper and put it underneath your mattress. Meditation is good. There are some prayers and stuff you could look into if you're into that sort of thing. That way when she comes back, you're ready.
Be careful, and ignore the little attention grabs. And stop giving her them with your actions.
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