Here is my answer then...I think you should read books like you breath air, and you will see then who needs to revision his own stuff.
I read like 3 books at the same time since i'm 14 already, and i took philosophy and literature courses (
that's a lot of reading) back in college, so whatever. And no, i don't need revision, actually i think you're the one who needs it, because you're mixing a lot of ethical concepts, that have nothing to do with the MBTI ftr. Then there's also your misintepretations and exagerations of Socionics.
Here is what you need to understand: usualy Infjs think they know something, but they actualy don't.
For example, there are alot of INFJs guys on forums that boast loudly that they are strong and confident and all the manly stuff. Probaly 99 percent of them don't really know what they are talking about. Its all in their heads...they have no real world validation.
I mean, we are on the internet...
Some do, some don't. I think it's pretty useless to go around questioning what people say on the internet of themselves, you don't have any certainty to make such claimings, also it's pretty trivial by the end. There are probably many times were i failed to assert myself, but that doesn't contradict what i've said.
Someone is strong willed if he can push the bar so high in outstanding situations, in such a way that is to be worthy of admiration, recognised by a more objective standard, people around us.
I think i fit your description, i'm still young though, but i'm sure that a lot of average people do, i don't really care about it anyway. Also what's a more objective standard for you btw? i'm curious. [MENTION=1871]muir[/MENTION] made a very good point regarding this subject. Don't give a shit about admiration, and i don't measure myself by how much i'm admired, i ain't no fucking sheep... Most of my problems i keep them to myself, i feel no need to have an award for that. Doing something with it is a completely different story.
As for the wakness vs vulnerability...I pledge on your side to be a little less stupid. Don't press words and meanings like is poetry or some essays. Please realise that this has implications in real life, not in your weakness vs vulnerability fantasy.
Just make the effort to be practical at least. This is not poetry, and you are not the "vulnerable" hero.
First, i'm not stupid, stop saying it. You seem pretentious btw, but then, this doesn't apply to all INFJs, nor the immature ones specifically, just you...
Vulnerability doesn't have any kind of bad connotation as weakness does, is neutral. And it describes it better than weakness. And your values (
like will, strenght, weakness, responsibility) doesn't apply to anyone, nor any type but yourself. You seem to want to "moralize" or "indoctrinate" people around here that's why i'm saying it.
As for poetry, there's a point that i want to make it's somewhat related. Psychology is a discipline where poetry, art, and self expression is necessary to get in touch with oneself, keep that in mind for the future, expand yourself. Read Jung, and if you have (which doesn't seem to be), read him closely.