Yes.
I'm done making my point, and proud of myself for my own growth because I didn't go fire mode on the topic. I am so sorry for your loss. 12 weeks is far.. 2 weeks from gender reveal & halfway to viability. *hugs* John..
I have also suffered 4 such losses. The first at 11 weeks. Some time later another at nearly 6 months, my son -Xavier. A "lightning strike" chance loss, a suspected ( UCA ) Umbilical Cord Accident.
Doctors & specialists rallied to assure us of its rarity, promising that having even one is "practically" medical history. So, I suffered. And then, I picked my warrior self back up and tried again. Two months later, my husband & I were expecting, and one year after our son Xavier' death.. new life was born - a son, the best little man I have ever had the honor to know.. Now a healthy, thriving little hobbit who even has my hobbit toes!
After him I wanted just one sibling for him to play with, then done. But lightning has a fascination with me, and the 3rd son I became pregnant with was found upon my 4 month gender reveal ultrasound with no heartbeat.
Devastation ensued.. again. I was induced and he was born with his cord around his thigh four times. The cord was flat and pinched.. cutting off his air supply. A verified UCA. 4 months later, one last try, I became pregnant again with my 4th son - Ayden. At the 4 month ultrasound he was found without heartbeat... Induction, born with his cord around his neck 5 times ( nuchal cord ). 3 late term UCA stillbirths in 3 years.
I understand the pain the two of you feel, John. ❤ Life is life, no matter how small.