This is all very silly and pointless anyway.
@jimtaylor --
You complain that women are favored by the legal system and that there is an imbalance in what is acceptable in the work place--
Yet you yourself say a woman flashing you is fun while a man flashing a woman is harassment.
If you want things to be fair and equal, then treat women fairly.
You should have reported her, and because you did not--you did men a disservice, if you truly believe in the legitimacy of a mens rights movement.
Or what do you prefer to happen? That men be allowed to flash in the workplace, too? LOL.
Your sister is a spoiled brat and her boyfriend should have walked out the door the second she started having a tantrum.
I just don't see how this is a mens rights issue.
Stop dating idiot women, they're out there.. Just like there are idiot men.
I don't date every chauvenist I meet and then complain about how unfair the world is...
Did you not read what was written afterwards. We discussed reporting her but at the end of the day nobody believes that a woman willingly flashed two men twice her size after work hours with no other witnesses. Reporting her would have gotten no where and perhaps would have resulted in allegations against us because her and other women like her have very much a pack mentality. If a man speaks out against one of them then the rest jump into to defend her and destroy that guy. If you carefully read and didnt just pick out pieces to fit your argument you would have understood this was the point. A man accusing a women of flashing gets no response from the legal system because mosy consider it harmless and because most just dont give a shit. A man flashing is like the end of the world and is taken very seriously. Going back to my story of Jane, nobody would believe that a good educated girl with a masters degree would willingly flash two men that are twice her size, after hours with no other witnesses. Let me tell you what the exact response will be as I have seen it. These two men are claiming that Sally willingly sexually harassed them after hours and I think it's a total lie. They are just threatened by her because she is a woman and might take their jobs some day. They are doing this just to ruin her reputation and they should be investigated for their own actions.
You have to remember that corporate America is not a legal system. Any equality and justice is swayed very much by who you know, not what you know. It isn't fair and these extreme feminist's know that as well and some of them work their hardest to put men down while at the same time, men do the same thing. As I advocated at the end, both types of these people need to be removed from their positions of power and a balance must be struck.
Again not all women are this way as it made it clear. Also you are jumping to extremes and making statements that werent made to fit your argument. So based of argument blacks should have just stopped getting killed by the KKK and not tried to do anything to change the standard of society? If you don't want to be killed by the KKK that don't get caught by them. Do woman have the words "I am pshycho controlling bitch who thinks she's gods gift to the world" written on her somewhere that I failed to miss. Yeah there are some visual signs but what you are advocating is just as messed up and is within the lines of what the OP suggested and what makes women say men are jerks. We try not to date these crazy women but they tend to be the most vocal and expressive about their hate of men which quickly spreads the word that a guy is a bad man because he slept with her and then realized she was crazy and left.
Plus you are saying that we should avoid a very large population of women who may have other great qualities if not for that mentality of that men should take care of them which has been drilled into their heads since they where born. Society needs to be changed to place an emphasis on equality and fair interactions within relationships. Enough of the stereotyping.
Now I don't believe many here are familiar with Greek and I know that by admitting I am a fraternity member will automatically associate me with the negative stereotypes that going along with being a fraternity member. These of course are still labeled upon us despite us having the highest GPA of any male or female organization at the University including student government, us raising the most amount for charity each year including $50,000+ each year for cancer research and us being involved in every major philanthropy work at the Unversity including rape awareness. A single allegation by a women, warented or not is enough to get our 100+ year charter pulled by the University. Our allegations of female misconduct are greates with a large amount of skepticism and again because we stupid frat boys who only know three things; drinking, women, and food. Not really equal and it's not due to a lack effort on our part, it just takes a long time to change a steryotype.
Also please stop with this men rights bs. I never once wrote that. I am calling for equal rights and treatment for men and women. You don't see it that way because you have made it very clear you have the same stereotype of men that most women. Only bitter, pathetic losers would care about such things and that the writer for this should just grow up. By making such a statement as you did you are only perpetuating the stereotype that men have to be strong and hold in their emotions and feelings because they have no value and only weak men express them. I would say that's a little unfair.
I am not trying to attack here. Just please think, wether you believe this to be true or not, more than enough men feel this way. We would never tell a woman so but we talk about it amongst ourselves. Also your statement about bad girls vs dating a good girl. I want you to think because I am not talking about those self centered girls we all know about. Would you say; that a genuinely sweet girl who likes to watch romantic comedies and is hoping that someday that a guy will show up and just sweep her off her feet, is bad? Probably not but I would because she is setting a standard that cannot be obtained. She is placing men at level of which is as unrealistic as the porn men watch. It is a fantasy world that man women have turned into a reality that they seek. Men are set to fail before they even walk in a door because they are competing with something that they can never win against. You would never say this type sweet, kind girl is bad or evil but she does have that mentality that men are supposed to chase her, pursue her, ect... Which leads to an unequal view on relationships. This is the bad I am talking about, not your usual outspoken selfish type of girl.