Yeah that was my reaction to that debate, and even I was surprised by it. I'm not woke, I'm not a feminist, I'm just a regular person who didnt find JD's policy appealing. Although that was the initial reaction, it's clear that the policy I was responding to is the policy of banning abortion. I'm fine with it being a states right issue. I'm not ok with a federal ban, and I'm not ok with birth control being limited. Not everyone who uses birth control uses it for prevention of pregnancy (I'm one of them) and also I don't think it's wrong to use birth control.
I don't like how that one issue is being used to determine the whole election, because there are a lot of other important issues that these policies will impact on both sides. There is a part of me that finds the way trump is portrayed triggering my paranoid side where I think, "why would there be a smear campaign against somebody like this unless they were a threat? (to the system, like a threat to existing corruption, not trump being a threat himself)" With censorship and other issues I thought, this country may be going in a wrong direction. But then I tried to challenge myself: if Trump doesn't win, is this "our last shot" ? Will the country be changed so dramatically that no matter what, it could never be fixed? I don't think so. And I also don't think so for Harris.
If Vivek Ramaswamy was the Republican candidate I would vote for him in a heart beat. And that's sort of what I'm hoping for is once we get rid of trump that Vivek will be able to be a prominent candidate. I like him better, his leadership style and his policies. *Even* if Vivek had similar reproductive positions, I think he's a better candidate, has better diplomacy skills. I would be willing to trust him.
I sympathize with why abortion isn't an important issue to you. And abortion itself isn't an issue I ever have to deal with because my partner and I are technically incapable of having children. But the birth control thing is important for me because menstruation is disgusting and I use birth control to avoid it, and I don't know why that is morally wrong. But beyond that, I thought JD's presentation about "earning trust" was him saying that he doesn't care what people want, what America wants, that he is smarter and that the correct route is to change people's minds on the issue. Am I wrong on my read on that? Let's say the Democrats were to say something similar about illegal immigration; that their goal was to "earn American's trust" to let in more illegal immigrants, wouldn't that seem twisted like the American people don't know enough to make decisions for themselves? Whether you like it or not, if the American people have a position on an issue, it seems bananas to say you've got to convince them they're wrong. But again that's just me. A HUGE part of the appeal of Trump for me IS his anti-establishment, populist positions so I think what happened with JD taking a position like this for me is that it went against what Trump is trying to do. Trump very carefully has said it is a states-right issue and that's acceptable for me. JD is more right than Trump on abortion and I think they are pairing him with Trump to appeal to those people who are against reproductive stuff but it is a bad, bad move. You are so right that reproductive rights are a big decider, so why not just be liberal with it like Trump is doing and WIN the election? Trump clearly understands that. JD not so much.